This is beautiful. The most important part is being 'you; whoever that is. I know for myself my identity, sense of self and understanding of my sense of self change periodically. I love the fluidity, the complexity and the uniqueness of this gender journey that we all share regardless of our trans status. I want to affirm you. I want you to know that I support you in being 'you'. I support you in use female pronouns when you are packing and presenting as male. I support you in using male pronouns and a female name or however your gender and identity manifests on a particular day. I don't think presentation and identity need to follow a linear pattern. I also believe that you can be 'male' in certain spaces/communities. I've recently learned that my sense of 'maleness' is tied to my environment. I feel more at ease with my male identity in certain places because I get what it means to be male, where as in other arenas I don't understand the cultural cues and I fall outside of what that community views as 'male' however, I still
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you are the best. I think the past year and half has been tough, but you have discovered things about yourself and community that most don't discover ever. you have acknowledged everything about you and are happy.
I am so proud of how strong you are and how you have handled every life crisis or identity crisis. I love every characteristic you embody whenever you embody them. You are the best! and I am honored that I get to be apart of your life and vice versa has you get to discover who you are, as I get to discover who I am.
i am srry i am so late in response. i have internet access again. Dude, no matter what it is you decide or how you choose to express yourself, or what your name is. You are still you inside, and you are a bbeautiful bastard. and i love you in that no bromo kinda way.
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I am so proud of how strong you are and how you have handled every life crisis or identity crisis. I love every characteristic you embody whenever you embody them. You are the best! and I am honored that I get to be apart of your life and vice versa has you get to discover who you are, as I get to discover who I am.
LOVE YOU!!!
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