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[lostandalone22]

Please feel free to comment, and I'll add you. Do not ask to be friended if you have no intention of friending me back.

If you're already on my flist, you don't need to comment. I'm not kicking folks off. I'm just securing things in my journal.

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[lostandalone22]

*Hugs Back Lots*

[pinkphoenix1985]

hey Tori- by accident I clicked cancel a few usernames off my flist yesterday- can I rejoin your flist? if you don't want too that is fine as well

[lostandalone22]

That was an accident? With everything going on, I thought it was on purpose. Sure, I'll add you back right away.

[pinkphoenix1985]

yeah, it was by accident since at the time I wanted to defriend someone else who was really annoying me by spaming a lot and I kept on having to refresh the page because of my slow 'net connection *sigh* so it was a mess

I hope that you have a good week ;)

[lostandalone22]

That makes sense. I can relate with that sometimes.

Thanks! You, too.

[charlies_dragon]

Hiya,

I've seen you 'round the place over the last few months and have been thinking that as we both love Supernatural so much, maybe we could be friends?

Mostly I ramble about things I love and make arty things for shows/people I like a lot :) Occasionaly RL pops up in my LJ, but I try to squish it down as much as possible *g*

charlies_dragon

[lostandalone22]

Yes, of course. I just added you. Most of my journal is fandom stuff and memes, but occasionally, you'll see personal stuff. Thanks for adding me as a friend.

[charlies_dragon]

Thanks for adding me :)

BTW, if you want to have a look at any of my art it's over @ dragons_horde and there's some pretty Jensen icons I posted a couple of hours ago incase you're in need of staring at pretties and not thinking *hugs*

charlies_dragon

[lostandalone22]

Thanks! I went and joined it.

[togoholic]

The last three or four days I've been thinking a lot and changing my mind, even talking to people I thought I'd never talk to - and I now know what I want to do. I want to keep an eye open and rethink some stuff. I think you saw me talking to jelloh and she warned me about ck. Now, I don't want to defriend her or turn against her because she hasn't done anything to me but if jelloh hadn't warned me about her, I probably wouldn't have had an open mind about what happened yesterday with you & onci in the comm. I totally understand why everything happened the way it happened (I read your explanation in another comment above, plus the official post jelloh saved from the comm) and I wanted to say that I would like to keep you on my flist. I don't know if you want to keep me because I'm friends with ck, but I would love to stay your friend. I just wanted you to know that :) I understand both sides and I'm not in the mood to defriend.

[lostandalone22]

I've never once told someone to choose a side. If you wanna be friends with her, then that's your thing. It's like, just because one of your friends likes/dislikes someone, doesn't mean that you have to like/dislike them. Does that make sense? It's not high school. I'm not ever going to draw a line and say "oh, well, if you like her, you're not my friend anymore." That's just "bzuh?"

I'm totally going to keep you as my friend, because I value you as my friend.

[togoholic]

Yes, I know but I would have understood if you'd said you have a problem with me being friends with her because a lot happened. It's not just the 'high school' thing, sometimes you just really feel like: No, I can't do this anymore. I want a fresh start and get rid of everyhting that reminds me of xyz. That's normal and that happens, even when we're adults. It's wonderful for me that we are still going to be friends because I like you a lot! ♥

[lostandalone22]

Thanks! It's wonderful for me, too.

I don't do that, though. I left dean-sam for that reason, but you honestly don't remind me of her. Everyone is their own person. I had a nasty breakup, and the girl my girlfriend cheated on me with? They've since broken up, and I'm still good friends with her, years later. If I could separate that, than how would I not be able to separate two folks in fandom that I've rarely ever even seen together?

[eurofabulous]

Hey Tori,
I kept my mouth shut since yesterday and I'll still do it because there's enough wank in my life I don't want to get involved in the fandom one XD I read your version, ckll's and onci's and made my opinion about evrything that happened.
We haven't been friends for long now but I really like you and I don't want to loose you as a friend. So I just wanted to let you that *hugs*
Now I'm gonna try your typing test *g*

[lostandalone22]

*hugs* I don't want to lose you as a friend, either. Thanks for sticking around.

[eurofabulous]

*hugs you back*
I forgot to mention that I love your FO banner, Milo + Jared = Death of me *g*

[lostandalone22]

I know, right. They're just so pretty.

*hugs*