Whats the point of revenge? All you get is a feeling of satisfaction that only lasts until your conscience kicks in and you begin to regret stooping down to the offenders level
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hmm, revenge is not as sweet as some say, and I learned this when I thought I had even out things, but then I felt bad to see that I hurt the other person, even if she deserved it, it wasn't making me happy to see that I hurt her. I thought I should've been the better person and just leave the situation in the past. Now I've been hurt again, but instead of taking advantage of this person's current situation I (once again) offered my hand in what it was possible. It might sound like I'm stupid for talking to her again, but I guess life has its own way of getting back at you for the things you do...
Life always gets back at you for the things you do . that's lifes way to keep us in check.
On trust me , I know all about giving people second chances , getting hurt again and then going back for more.Ive been raised to help people, but sometimes enough is enough and the person doing the hurting is just no longer worthy.
In that case, all you can do it sit back and hope that life does get back at them for their deeds.
Yes, I think I'm at that point where I don't think I should care for her anymore, since she keeps on forgetting what the real meaning of "friendship" or whatever relationship we had really is...Hey, I like you're journal and the way you express yourself when you write...mind if I add you to my friend's list?
Revenge is a fun way to keep yourself amused. It is also for people who don't have a strong concience. I think the worst thing you can do to the person is just let them suffer and not help them.
People don't usually go out if their way to hurt other people. Somehow things just happen and in the mist of confusion personalities clash. Revenge is like trying to be someone elses judge, which is unfair especially if the person wasn't set out to hurt you, which would turn you into the even worse person because unlike that person, you set out with purpose intentions to hurt.
It sounds like you are bent set on your side of things, and convinced you are right and this person is wrong and deserves these awful things you listed. Which is not really a healthy way to go about life. The best thing to do is to try to understand that there are different points of view/ ways of thinking and feelings about things. Be open minded to them and if you need closure why not just talk it out with that person.
Well what happens when youre sick of listening to the other side and their story? What happens when second, third and fourth chances were given and you still got hurt
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Hmm what you said makes alot of sence. Definitely a different and also good way of approching things.
But I still think people don't hurt each other intentionally. Somewhere in their mind I believe they just don't understand or really think about the effects of their actions. I don't know, and I guess no one will ever really know. There are a million different other people out there, its hard to try to figure out why they all do what they do. You just hope that they do what they do because its the best thing they can do at that certain time and place.
Yeah also what you listed wasn't awful. That was probably the wrong word for me to use. But sometimes what might be a world of lies to you is the truth to them. Its all about perspective when it comes to stuff like that.
anyways good luck hun. It all turns out good in the end.
*stabs you repeatedly* see that was intentional. I hurt you...physically...I knew what I was doing...your point is therefore incorrect. People do go after others with intetions to hurt when they didn't do aynthing bad tothem. People are like that...sure misscomunications can occur but how many times? And at some point you do want to get the person back for hurting you.
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On trust me , I know all about giving people second chances , getting hurt again and then going back for more.Ive been raised to help people, but sometimes enough is enough and the person doing the hurting is just no longer worthy.
In that case, all you can do it sit back and hope that life does get back at them for their deeds.
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It sounds like you are bent set on your side of things, and convinced you are right and this person is wrong and deserves these awful things you listed. Which is not really a healthy way to go about life. The best thing to do is to try to understand that there are different points of view/ ways of thinking and feelings about things. Be open minded to them and if you need closure why not just talk it out with that person.
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But I still think people don't hurt each other intentionally. Somewhere in their mind I believe they just don't understand or really think about the effects of their actions. I don't know, and I guess no one will ever really know. There are a million different other people out there, its hard to try to figure out why they all do what they do. You just hope that they do what they do because its the best thing they can do at that certain time and place.
Yeah also what you listed wasn't awful. That was probably the wrong word for me to use. But sometimes what might be a world of lies to you is the truth to them. Its all about perspective when it comes to stuff like that.
anyways good luck hun. It all turns out good in the end.
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