Fix it then DOOOO IT!

Feb 15, 2009 23:45

So I always feel like I want to and should do a friends cut.
A REAL cut where I cut people that I don't talk to anymore or just don't post about things that interest me and I can NEVER do it. I always end up just cutting 3 or 4 people that have either removed me first or literally don't post at all.

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firstlady1408 February 16 2009, 11:36:07 UTC
Meh you can cut me ;-)

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lostonbroadway February 16 2009, 11:41:09 UTC
You should be so lucky :p

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firstlady1408 February 16 2009, 11:51:26 UTC
Ah that mean I gotta stay ;-)?

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lostonbroadway February 16 2009, 12:09:54 UTC
Like you could leave me?
YOU LOVE ME!

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propernice February 16 2009, 15:22:08 UTC
I always get so weird about cutting people off of my flist, too. I typically do it once a year during my 'spring cleaning' time of the year. I think it's awkward because someone can not talk to you for months and months and months, and then when you cut them, all of a sudden you get a comment going "HEY WHY DID YOU CUT ME?!"

Bah.

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lostonbroadway February 17 2009, 06:17:51 UTC
Exactly. I have no balls to do it really so I usually just suffer through their ramblings and never comment hoping they'll cut me someday.

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kopernik February 16 2009, 18:14:14 UTC
Someone on my friends list died several years ago, and I felt sad whenever I saw her name on my profile page. I did finally remove her and even banned her so she wouldn't be in my friend of list, either, once that became a possibility. And yes, I do still feel guilty about that.

I'm Irish Catholic (well, born and raised, anyway); everything makes me feel guilty.

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lostonbroadway February 17 2009, 06:24:17 UTC
Yeah, when I said I took her off, I lied. I can't do it. I even looked at her profile page and she still has 150+ mutual friends so it helps that I am not the only one. That's healthy, right?

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kopernik February 17 2009, 06:28:12 UTC
It's probably healthier than banning her just so you won't see her name on your profile page anymore because you don't like to feel ouchy inside.

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