Stay or Nay?

[black_icis]

There's a bit too many details and backstory to be able to put here for super accurate advice, but I figured I'd try and ask for some anyway

Comments

[tigress35]

From what you've written, it sounds like you do want someone who loves you back. Only you know whether the the other parts of the relationship are worth it.

I tend to think that people who tell someone in a long[er] term relationship that they don't love them but don't actually end it are just too chicken to break up with their SO. He wants you to do the hard work for him.

[black_icis]

Hmm you may be right about him wanting me to break up with him. Thank you very much for the insights.

[mishelbyy]

[black_icis]

Thank you. I agree. I just don't know if I can not let it bother me or to love myself with him I suppose.

[mishelbyy]

Re: Hmm.

[black_icis]

True. Thank you very much for your words of advice.