I want you to notice, when I'm not around

[lovelessredhope]

Home from my psychiatrist
He says I've greatly improved and that I might not need to see him anymore
Yay!

So musical practice was fun
and once again, me and Dexter= unseparable
good gracious is this boy messing with my head
ahhhhhhhh!!!!!!
what's a girl to do?!?
*sigh*

I'm kinda mad I worked so hard on my Imperialism thing for History
but he didn't take it

Comments

My take

[evilqueendrizz]

I would guess that by telling him you like him, you have flattered him and given him an ego boost. He's hanging around you because he knows you've placed him on a proverbial pedestal, and it makes him feel like hot shit.

Next time you are around him, be friendly, but act like you've completely gotten over it. I have a feeling it'll change his tune. He won't like the fact that he's not in the spotlight anymore, so he'll either stop the b.s. mixed signals or decide he liked the attention and ask you out.

One thing to remember: boys are yucky.

Another bit of advice - I really didn't date in highschool. I had a lot of guys who only considered me a friend. Honestly and sincerely, it'll happen. Just give it time. Besides, with all the other stuff you have piled on your plate, you might find a boyfriend would make it harder (more distraction). Enjoy the freedom to flirt ruthlessly with whomever you want.

Re: My take

[lovelessredhope]

I did try the whole Be friendly but back off thing, and HE started coming after ME.
that's why I am confused

so... hmm

but yes I know what you mean.
I'm just sick of guys not even being semi-attracted to me
just..'friend'
bleh

thanks Mel!
I love your advice
<3 haha