spill it, people.

[lovenote]

I've seen this around my flist a few times and thought it'd be interesting to see what happens.

Tell me your honest opinion of me.

So yeah, I really want YOU ALL to do this. Good or bad, just say it. Keep it anonymous and please remember to be honest.

Comments

[anonymous]

Sometimes you seem so reckless it's quite alarming. There's real guess work involved in deciding what type of person you are. Sometimes you can seem so lovely, and other times, it can really be rather ... questionable. Sometimes I worry that you don't understand things, and I really wish I could lecture you about a few topics. Somtimes, what makes you happy really isn't what should, which wouldn't matter if it wasn't so constant.

I just think that someday soon something is gonna happen, and you're gonna wake up. If that makes sense.

I love being your friend and I belive you have a lot of great qualities, but it's upsetting sometimes because I feel like you're risking something. Or that you don't really realise what you could lose, until is is.

[lovenote]

i don't think i'm as reckless as i could be. i know people who are much more careless. i'm confused as to why you would question the type of person i am? and lecture away, please. i probably really need to hear what you have to say. and i know, i really need to stop with the weed smoking. it does make me feel wonderful but i really need to stop doing it as much, not to mention quit all together.

it makes perfect sense.

i'm sorry my actions upset you so!! i'll definitely take all of what you have said into consideration though. i promise.

by the way, i really want to know who you are! haha.

[anonymous]

Reckless in perspectives of things, not in actions. It's not supposed to be a comparison to other people.
You seem to change a lot. The only time that I find your behavior repetitive is when your on weed. It's always the same, and as much as it makes you seem happy, it's not real happy. Sometimes I think you can be harsh on those around you, or not meaning to be, a little arrogant. As much as I'm on your side, I sometimes think that you need to be open minded of what other people feel, as well as you.

Basically, you've got to stop smoking pot. Honestly, as much as you think it's harmless and won't hurt you - it wil. Especially at the daily basis you do it on. YOU CANNOT KEEP DOING IT TO YOURSLF. If weed and strip clubs are the things that make you happy, then you've got a lot of considering to do. It doesn't sound to good on paper.

Your actions only upset me because I care about you! Don't take it in an entirely aggressive way. I know what you are capable of, and it's silly to waste so much money on those things anyway.

[anonymous]

I think you're a great, ambitious person. I liked how excited you were to begin college classes and how hard you try to do well in them. You've had your share of hard times, but you keep on going. You usually have a positive attitude and seem to be full of life. I think that's very admirable. :)

Sometimes I don't agree with the way you handle certain situations, but you still handle them. For instance, breaking up with Allie was something you needed to do (and go you for getting up the courage to do it!), but I didn't think you did it in the best manner. That's only my opinion though and if it worked out fine for you, than that's what matters. I also wish you wouldn't smoke so much, but I won't lecture you about that. lol

Overall, you're awesome. ♥

[lovenote]

aww. that's sweet that you have found some kind of admiration in me. that makes me super happy!!

haha. every comment here has said something about my smoking habit. i didn't know so many diagreed with it! but oh well though. i'm thankful i did this because it's making me realize how much i need to stop so much more. so thank you.

thank you! and you're awesome too!

[anonymous]

well basically, i think you are stupendous.

i enjoy reading your posts and, frankly, love the way you handle situations because you throw your entire self into things and let the chips fall as they may. i think a lot of people would say that this is an unhealthy way to enter into things, but i enjoy that quality in you.

one thing i sometimes worry about with you is the going back and forth on the whole ally issue, simply because i think you deserve to be happy all the time. and when you are happy, that is AWESOME, but when she makes you sad, i want to kill her because you are so pretty when you smile.

ok, ive rambled for far too long here. but honestly, i loaf you anikaaa.

[lovenote]

why thank you! i've never been told i was stupendous. :D & that's so interesting that you would say that about me. never in my life would i think that i handle things like that. that actually makes me feel awesome to tell you the truth. haha.

awww. my gosh! I LOVE YOU!!! that was probably the sweetest thing i've ever been told. i'm blushing, haha!

i really want to know who this is!!

[anonymous]

You are a wonderful, caring, beautiful girl. You seem to care more about others than yourself, which isn't always good, but it does show that you have a great heart. You are the kind of person that I would love to have as a best friend because you are so fun and full of life. I adore you!

[lovenote]

awww. this is probably one of the most sweetest comments, EVER. i really wish i knew who this was. as for caring about myself more than others, DEFINITELY. i give alot more than i usually get but that doesn't stop me at all, obviously. & i probably adore you too, love!!

[anonymous]

i...adore you. it surprises me so much, because i realize how extraordinarily different we are. and yet, essentially, i see some of myself in you. i am so proud of the way you handle your sexuality; you are who you are and do not apologise, yet you don't throw it around in everyone's face simply because it's different. you're the prime example of someone who proves that there is nothing "different" about homosexuals. i hope i'm communicating meaning. i just think it's a beautiful thing.

sometimes i think you're slightly naive and, as has been beaten about the head, reckless. my issue with the pot is not that you do it, but that you take it so lightly. it's not so much that i find it offensive, but i don't know that you really realize that there are people on your flist who have spent their lives living under the sway of addictions such as pot. to take it so lightly...it hurts, i guess. mostly because i don't ever want to see you the way i see some people in my life.

you're lovely. so lovely.

[lovenote]

aww. tell me who you are, plz!! i don't even have words for the first paragraph you wrote. all i can say is thank you!!

i'm sorry. i don't know any one on my friends list that has had problems/issues with weed. they've never been broughten up and i've never read about them. so i'm terribly sorry that it hurts you.

thank you so much.
mwaaaaaah!

[anonymous]

aha, do you really want to know who i am? ;)

[lovenote]

i think i already have an idea. but yes, tell meeee.