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[darknessisbliss]

So, it's been 9 long months since I've started this LDR of mine, and.... I guess it's mostly going okay. I've applied to grad school to be in the same country as him, and am waiting to hear back. Hopefully, all should go well, and I should be there in a few short months

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[angelic_song]

The only advice I have is to tell him just what you said here. I know I've gotten a bit distant with my LD boyfriend in the past, due to the stresses of school and such, but he let me know what he needed not to feel abandoned or worth less to me, and we made up for it with more communication later. Just be honest and upfront with him. You never know what's going on in his head until you ask, you know?

I hope everything works out for the best for you. Good luck having that conversation. :)

[aliwalas]

I'm in a LDR and when I feel like he's feeling a bit distant, I pull back as well. I get my self preoccupied so I don't think about him, sometimes to a point that I will delete his texts so I don't get tempted to read them again. I wouldn't message him in the morning. I would only do one word replies. I would even come to a point of not saying, I love you back. He notices it right away, within that day. If not, the next day for sure. When he asks me what's up, I then tell him that I'm just returning the favor. How does he think I feel when he does the same thing to me. From there, he gets lovey dovey again, at least for a bit. enough to bring it back to before