Sex

[lovespeace]

Maybe I've watched too many movies, but I wonder sometimes if I am missing out. I've never had wild, throw everything off the desk or can't wait to be with you in the back of a cab kind of sex. Is that normal? I don't think I've ever wanted it that bad. But I wish I did. Is there something wrong with me?

Comments

[flirtaciousj]

Hullo! You've listed me as a friend. Who exactly are you? Did I meet you at carl_spackler's wedding?

I don't really object when beautiful women friend me, I just like to be able to properly place them ...

[lovespeace]

*SNIFF! You don't remember? We had the best sex I've ever had! How could you forget that?

[flirtaciousj]

Well, that narrows it down to three possibilities ... ;)

[lovespeace]

LMAO! You slut!

You come by your name honestly!

Oh, and to address the actual post ...

[flirtaciousj]

I tend to think that you've been watching too many movies. Based on what I know from my life and that of others that I am close to, that sort of wild, urgent, driven sex is pretty rare. And it's not always healthy when it does happen. Different people have different needs and urges. Some people don't get the joy of preparing an ornate multi-course meal and consuming it; that doesn't make them missing something or make the person who does enjoy it bad; they're just different.

To hold with the analogy, if you feel like you want to learn how to cook, you can start to develop those skills and abilities and see where it takes you. But remember, cooking involves sharp implements and burning surfaces, so care and safety are essential. I'd say the same thing about desk sex. OK, not so much the sharp/burning aspects, but being aware of some care and safety issues. :D It's only when you do feel trusting and safe that you can truly let go.

Or at least that's what I've heard :)