Dude, that is downright fucked up. I mean, there's supposed to be some trust there with someone who's shooting you, ESPECIALLY if it's naked pictures.
This guys sounds like a complete douchebag. I'm sorry I wasn't there to deck him in his creepy face.
The guy was a total stranger who broke the agreements you guys had already made, and he acted like a dick when he should have been professional. There's nothing wrong with you for feeling violated or upset about it. I would feel the exact same way.
i'm of two schools of thought on this, coming as a female nude photographer who has modelled nude before. on the one hand, you have to trust your gut. if you're getting a bad vibe, you have every right to say "this isn't cool, i need to take a few minutes to consider the situation" or if you feel the photog is realy crossing the line you have every right to get your clothes and get out. a model should never feel guilty about trusting her gut and is under no obligation to do anything she isn't comfortable with
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I completely agree with you on both points. Like I mentioned, I tried to rationalize (I so spelled that wrong) coming from his point of view, and if I would have been creeped out if it was a woman
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It sounds like there was quite a bit of inappropriate behaviour on his part.
And you did the right thing by bringing someone else along.
You are not to blame!
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This guys sounds like a complete douchebag. I'm sorry I wasn't there to deck him in his creepy face.
The guy was a total stranger who broke the agreements you guys had already made, and he acted like a dick when he should have been professional. There's nothing wrong with you for feeling violated or upset about it. I would feel the exact same way.
That said, I'm prolly gonna kill the guy now.
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but I feel like drinking it out of my memory.
I hate feeling like this, I can't even explain it.
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