Being someone who was also in a serious, long term relationship, I know how you feel... The odd thing is its been almost a year for me (it'll be a year at the end of the week), and Im starting to think that getting into another relationship of anykind is more bother then its worth. Ive finally become acustomed to single life, and I dont hate it. All my money is mine, all my free time is mine and frankly... I just dont get lonely anymore. So stick with it. The hardest stuff is probally over.
*hugs* I'm no expert, but maybe trying to forget isn't the best longterm solution. Things never go away like that. But whatever you do or feel, *hugs* be good (or decent, rather :P).
me, anonymous again
anonymous
April 4 2005, 21:31:20 UTC
ive been through a long term relationship too, im sure i was perfect for them, and it took me roughly a year to get someone else, and to get over him, (first clue to who i am, im female:P) then when i waswiththe other guy, i changed, a lot, i realized everything can change in an instant including in emotions, and i know what you feel, it will change it will take time, and although you doubt it it will get betterm, but it could take years, but you'll start to feel better soon....*snuggles* feel better
Hey, Liam. I've never posted on your LJ before, but I thinks it's time I did now. I know it hurts to feel the way you do, hell, everybody could agree to that. It makes you feel horrible to think that you live a lie or that you are lying to keep people from worrying. And it hurts trying to recover from a long term relationship. But someday it will heal. It might be a while before it does, and it might be painful trying to put the past behind you, but you can do it. *hugs* here's a little saying for you...
You Have To Take The Good With The Bad, Smile When Sad, Love What You Got And Remember What You Had, Always Forgive But Never Forget, Learn From Your Mistakes But Never Regret, People Change, Things Go Wrong, Just Remember Life Goes On.
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i need to think of a name...hmmmmn.....
anonymous the ripper...i guess
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You Have To Take The Good With The Bad, Smile When Sad, Love What You Got And Remember What You Had, Always Forgive But Never Forget, Learn From Your Mistakes But Never Regret, People Change, Things Go Wrong, Just Remember Life Goes On.
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