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[lsub90]

why is it okay for guys to do stuff with girls, but not the other way around. If you saw your good guy friend making out at a party you'd be all excited for him, but if you see a girl making out or if you hear a girl talking about feeling natural sexual feelings like being horny, then its just assumed that she's a slut or that there's something

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[anonymous]

hmm... it's weird how that works... but I can't really explain it because I think if a guy is just making out with some random girl at a party/club/etc. he's a man-slut, but that's just my opinion (but if it's his g/f, then that is just simple fun and goodness.) However, not many people agree with me, but oh well. As for the "natural sexual feelings" thing... I really don't think a guy/girl is a slut for that. Like there's nothing wrong with checking someone hot, it's the acting on it by making out with a random person that makes is slutty or skanky. On the other hand, if a guy has a girlfriend and he's checking out a bunch of girls and crap like that, he's a complete asshole. Similarly, if a girl has a boyfriend and she's checking out a bunch of guys and crap like that, she's a complete bitch

[lsub90]

well i don't know who you are or if you will even check this but...why is it okay if a couple is making out hardcore at a party or something? i mean what if you don't know they are dating? then won't you have the same opinion of them as someone who is not dating? and how is just like purely making out a slutty act? i mean i guess we differ on ideas but to me just making out at a party especially when under the influence is just something fun to do, and makes the party expirience more fun. but idk i guess thats just me.

[anonymous]

hmm... I don't really know... I just have different beliefs. I guess I just feel that way because I think to myself that when the time comes...
"I'm dating like the greatest girl in all the world, and she has GOT to be the ONE! Yeah... I want spending the rest of my life with here"
... I don't want this kinda "i used to make out with random people" thing on my past. I can't really explain "why", it's just what I personally feel, because I wouldn't want to be dating someone who used to make out with random people in the past either. I don't know... just my personal feelings.

"and how is just like purely making out a slutty act?"
It's not... if you're dating the person. If it's just some random person, then it kinda is. It DEFINATLY is if you make out with just some random person and you're dating someone else.

[lsub90]

who are you? seriously? like do i know you?

so thats fine if you're not into making out with random people, bc everyone has the right to his own beliefs and what not, but if you were dating a girl and she told you after the fact that she has made out/done stuff with random people, would you just like dump her? even if she never made out or did anything with othre people while you're dating?

you must not know me though bc otherwise you'd know what i was like.