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24 Relationship Questions:
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1) Single, Crushin', Interested, or in a Relationship?:
Married up one side and down the other.
2) Are you happy with where you are?
completely
3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
I have four spouses, so I've kind of run the gamut of ways to fall in love. With Rodney it was pretty quick...I wanted him from the first time we stepped foot on an alient planet together and he told me I was stupid for touching the foliage. With Carson is was a suprise, I thought Rodney was just being greedy--but once I got close to him, it was impossible to be without him. With Radek it was slow, but I fell embarassingly hard...one day I just looked at him, and suddenly everything about he and I made sense. With Rae it was suprisingly simple--she made Radek happy...and before I knew it, before I could even ponder what the consequences would be..she was making me happy too.
4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
when I was young, it happened all the time....then I sort of stopped letting it happen.
5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is acceptable?
I believe that accidents happen, and sometimes as hard as you fight something, as much as you want to just run away, things sometimes chase you down. That being said, going into something with outright deception in mind is wrong--planning to go out and destroy the trust you have with someone you love is a disgrace.
6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
....I can't walk away from something like that...I'm not sure I could let them go, even if they hurt me at this point. So yes.
7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
We kinda did it even before we really talked about it.
8) Do you want children?
I always have....but never allowed myself to dwell on it. Well, I take that back...I guess I haven't always wanted my own...but I love kids in general. It never occourred to me it was an option until recently--I find myself achingly attracted to the idea.
9)Do you want to be married when you have kids?
I plan on being married until I'm old and grey--so yeah.
10) Would you consider adoption?
of course.
11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think a cool way to let you know would be?:
**if they just turn to me, look me right in the eye, and call my mental stability into question because I'm not having regular sex with them when *obviously* it's the best course of action. I'd laugh it off then get them up in a jumper--classic.
**if they cuddle up to me and whisper in my ear when I'm trying to be really mad at them for quarantining me in the infirmary for two days while they run tests...then proceed to make it the most.....restful two days of my life.
**if they slyly flirt with me for days and days, then find a way to invite me into their office and wait for me to make the move.
**if they make my lover the happiest man in the universe first, then proceed to show me how fantastic things with her really can be.....
12) Do you think playing hard to get works?
Sometimes, as a sex game, it can be really interesting...but as a flirting tactic? Tacky and frustrating for all parties.
13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?:
I did once--I was a master, or so I thought---then I met the real hardasses, got my heart ripped out, and decided the game wasn't for me.
14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
I believe....you can feel that connection--but it takes time to work out the difference between love and lust.
15) Are you romantic?
*wraps self in ribbon and strategically-placed bows* when I have time.
16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
definitely...everyone has the capacity for change...the real question is, should you.
17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be
Our wedding was exactly what I wanted--it was perfect in all ways. One day, at our anniversary, though--I'd love to take them all back to their home countries and do it again for each of them.
18) Sex buddies - good or bad?:
always accidental. --good, when you're dating....but...after marriage, it's a bit harder. I would never say no if one of my lovers asked, and the person wasn't a disease-ridden sociopath. I plan on trying the monogamy thing for awhile, though. (as monogamous as a poly group can be called)
19) Do you give in easily when fighting?
depends on who I'm fighting and what woobie face they give me. If it's not one of my spouses, generally no.
20) Do you have feelings for someone right now, whether they know or not?:
evey breath is for them...and I hope they know it.
21) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you messed that up?
I can't even imagine being with anyone but my spouses, so I have no regrets.
22.) Have you broken a heart?:
I hope not.
23.)What will happen if you come and find another person in bed with your girl/boy?
dive in and see where I can fit myself in, generally.
24.)What would you say about your last EX?:
if I ever see him again, the jail time will be worth it.