Comments | lttlsparklz: I wanna be daylight in your eyes

lttlsparklz

I wanna be daylight in your eyes

Apr 01, 2007 00:23

So here's a question for all of you out there in the world...how do you know when you've found the one...as in the one you want to spend forever with? How do you know you can trust yourself...and them? How do you keep from getting hurt...how do you make sure you don't invest wrongly? Unrelated....How do you stop loving someone who's forgotten ( Read more... )

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luminashadow April 1 2007, 21:11:16 UTC

To know you've found “the one,” you have to know with all of your heart that you are ready first. If you've even an ounce of doubt in yourself, it could turn into you simply longing for verification of your own being within someone else.

In essence, being in love with the idea of being in love; and not the actual person.

Take me for example, I've become so desensitized to heartbreak that I don't even care anymore, which is bad. I have a girlfriend and I do care about her very much, and I actually wish our relationship will flourish. However I am nowhere close to real love, nor will I be for a while. I've thought about it in great detail, if we broke up yeah I'd be a bit stunned by it, but I think I'd recover quicker than I have in the past, simply because I'm not trying to fake myself into being in love when my physical and emotional body is not capable of handling it.

All emo aside, the one thing to remember is that love does actually exist. You just gotta be able to recognize it. There's no real tell-tale signs, you just know.

answers to your questions in order: pinkchokolate April 2 2007, 01:37:27 UTC

Q: how do you know when youve found the one?
A: when it hurts to be without them.

Q: how do you know you can trust yourself?
A: i dont know

Q: and them?
A: you just do. without even thinking about it.

Q: how do you keep from getting hurt?
A: if theyre the one, you wont. otherwise, you just try not to fall too hard too fast.

Q: how do you make sure you dont invest wrongly?
A: by keeping constant communication with them.

Q: how do you stop loving someone who's forgot about you?
A: you dont.

Q: how do you finally move on?
A: give it time. years.

Q: how do you know when you have moved on?
A: when they dont cross your mind every single day.

Answers to your questions part 1 mcjrotcgal1027 April 3 2007, 01:02:49 UTC

1) How do you know when you have found the one... as in the one you want to spend forever with ( ... )

Answers to your questions part 2 mcjrotcgal1027 April 3 2007, 01:03:52 UTC

4) How do you stop from loving someone who's forgotten you ( ... )

Re: Answers to your questions part 2 lttlsparklz April 3 2007, 01:37:35 UTC

Thanks Erika! I appreciate your comments :-)

So...I don't have a car, and I've been racking my brain on ways to get to you...do you have any suggestions? I would love to see you some weekend (as I don't have class or work) ...I can possibly get a friend to drive me over- what are your thoughts?? I'll talk to you later, hopefully we will be on AIM at the same time- otherwise, you can email me (Leyna682@gmail.com)

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