Dear Everyone

[lucidfeathers]

I'm in a relationship with no future. We won't see each other at all really over the summer. He is going to London next semester whilst I'll be in the Netherlands. We are constantly trying to hide the fact that we're together from everyone. We don't admit when we go on dates. We sleep in the same bed every night. He treats me well. I treat him well

Comments

[anonymous]

As far as I am concerned, if you have finally found someone who you do not push away automatically and are still happy with that person, I would say not to hold back. The fact that both of you are going abroad in the fall would better the situation, because 1) one of you isnt stuck on campus without the other, 2) you are still doing your own thing but can at some point visit the other, 3) you are actually happy, keep it don't push it away this time. These things do work sometimes yah know, you just have to let them work.

[kawaii_hanako]

there's something freeing in an open-ended relationship. you get to enjoy the moment and not worry about being tied down if it doesn't work in the long run. of course, that isn't to say that it can't work out eventually, but since that's not the focus if it does it's a pleasant surprise. that's one of my biggest problems with Eric: I'm content to operate in such fashion, yet he believes he would not be able to go on if there was ever a day he didn't have me as his partner. I guess my point is, if you're happy now don't worry about the future. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work. If it does, all the better luck for you.

On a side-note, this just reminds me how I am constantly surprised at how much you and my good friend from Conn (Rachael) are alike sometimes. Funny, huh?