"Is there something that you're trying to say..?"

[lucilu]

People can be so stupid. People like him have no morals at all. And for once, I thought I could teach a person how to have some morals, but he never listens. And for once I'm thinking that maybe - just maybe, I might have to end it all. And I don't want to. I'm far too scared. I'm far too forgiving to do such a thing. But it hurts so much inside.

Comments

[sarahdotcom]

Oh sweetie. You've got enough on your plate without trying to "help" other people. It always ends in tears. Put yourself first for a while. Surround yourself with balanced, happy people, people who will be good for you. You can't keep giving and not getting anything back, you'll end up with nothing left. You won't be any use to anyone then. Please, please take care of yourself. Sorry to sound a bit harsh, but you deserve so much and it's yours for the taking. Don't settle for less. *big hugs*

Re:

[morbid_curious]

Sarah is saying a lot of things here that make a heck of a lot of sense, in my humble opinion. Putting yourself first is sometimes not only good, but necessary - and it doesn't mean in any way that you're a bad person. It can be a difficult and ugly lesson (it was the way I learned it), but you can't save the world if you can't save yourself.

You've probably heard enough of what I've had to say on this subject already, so I won't say much more. I'm happy you're the kind of person you are. I appreciate that you think about the welfare of others. The sad and frustrating thing is that sometimes when we do all we can, it still may not feel like enough. Conversely, though, it's nigh impossible to help someone who cannot or will not be helped, for whatever reason.

However your life goes - with the him in question, with anyone else, or by yourself - I wish you much happiness. Whether the Fates and the universe agree or not, I believe it is simply your due.

[mrpumpernickel]

It's hard to change people that just doesn't want to change, as seems to be the case here. I'd be tempted to say that it's something best left alone and then move on with your life. If he's not up to your wishes and keep on crossing you then, excuse me for being blunt, what are you still doing with him

[nipps]

A man was giving a lecture to his class

Hamst3r:

[anonymous]

Damn fucking right, bitch - you betta listen to nipps and Sarah! ;P

I <3 LUCI