Comments | luckyducky82: A Night of Hurtful Emails

luckyducky82

A Night of Hurtful Emails

Aug 25, 2010 00:01

All from DJ (plus my replies ( Read more... )

Comments 8

macdawgversion2 August 25 2010, 04:09:15 UTC

I'm sorry to say this, Sheila, but you sound psychotic here. I wouldn't be surprised if he just ignores you altogether. You say you are done, but then you go right back and contact him again and again. You pulled the same stuff with Steve. Get out and do something.

macdawgversion2 August 25 2010, 06:14:02 UTC

Egad, this is not how I meant that to sound. (Glad I've made fans too.) I think sariebeth88 put it best. You have to cut ties with DJ, ASAP. The psychotic part... not what I meant. But if you continue to go back and throw hurtful shit at him, it becomes stalkery. You gotta hang tough and ignore any contact he tries to make.

So sorry for the poorly-worded initial response.

luckyducky82 August 25 2010, 13:06:14 UTC

you calling me psycho?!?!?!!? I KILL YOU. Just kidding.

I know I know.

Im reading this book right now called 'Love Junkie' its like I should have written this book!!!!

sariebeth88 August 25 2010, 05:01:02 UTC

I think you need to take time for yourself, without contacting him for a bit. From what you both wrote, the relationship, and I know it is a friendship now, is toxic. The back and forth stuff, trying to hurt each other or produce a response out of someone...it isn't healthy.

And please don't group me with the guy at the top. I really want you to be strong and fight for a healthy relationship with people who won't play games with you.

luckyducky82 August 25 2010, 13:07:34 UTC

Thanks. DJ is going to mail the book to me so I won't hae to see him and the check is in the mail even if he doesnt think it is.

canyoncat August 25 2010, 08:57:14 UTC

You really need to let go of this, of him, completely. No good can come from it at this point. You are using him as a crutch and you need to learn how to stand on your own. The best thing to do is what he said, erase the phone number and e-mail and just move on. I don't think it's even possible to just be friends.

luckyducky82 August 25 2010, 13:08:23 UTC

Lately with the past two exboyfriends its not a friendship kind of deal, I guess.

Thanks for your honest comments.

canyoncat August 25 2010, 13:19:14 UTC

You do need to let go of this and not dive into anything else for a while until you sort out your feelings and figure out what you are really looking for.

My guess though is that you will be back with DJ within a few days pretending to have some kind of friendship while he uses you for sex. And then sooner or later you will be back where you were yesterday. Don't make me say "I told you so."