You are the one deciding what goes on in your life. Everything you do is a decision you make. An inability or a desire to not want to take responsibility for that is highly unhealthy. If you can't make adult decisions and be ok with them, that's also a serious problem.
I'm not trying to be mean, and please don't take this the wrong way. Mal - have you considered therapy? You're not crazy, I just think that you have a couple issues that you haven't been able to and probably won't be able to work out on your own. It's something I've been noticing for a while :(
Well, I meant all that from a religious point of view. Leaving my fate and decisions up to God and stuff.
I know you aren't trying to be mean :)And this past year I PROBABLY should have gotten some therapy... But as of now, I got rid of the thing in my life that was causing me all the up's and down's, self-loathing, and all sorts of bad emotional things. I'm so incredibly relieved it's gone. I'm better and super thankful for it.
"God helps those who help themselves" - I believe that's a Christian saying? You're still supposed to make your own decisions, you just have to have god in your heart when you make them.
I think everyone can use a little therapy - especially me XD. But I am glad things are getting better for you - and I hope that things continue on that way. :)
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I'm not trying to be mean, and please don't take this the wrong way. Mal - have you considered therapy? You're not crazy, I just think that you have a couple issues that you haven't been able to and probably won't be able to work out on your own. It's something I've been noticing for a while :(
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I know you aren't trying to be mean :)And this past year I PROBABLY should have gotten some therapy... But as of now, I got rid of the thing in my life that was causing me all the up's and down's, self-loathing, and all sorts of bad emotional things. I'm so incredibly relieved it's gone. I'm better and super thankful for it.
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I think everyone can use a little therapy - especially me XD. But I am glad things are getting better for you - and I hope that things continue on that way. :)
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