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[luckytj24]

went gambling for my first time last night at Grand Casino, in hinckely. bob's brother zac is home from iraq with a shit load of money and gave me and bob $40 and we won $110. pretty sweet first-timers luck!!!! we ate snow crab and got sticky. it was soo much fun. then , getting home at 11:30pm we went to play pool, so zac could use his newly

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[_so_this_is_luv]

Im just curious as to why you are drawing the line at bob getting a job? i know that its a step. a big step. but he's had the oppurtinity to get a job for a long time. And what if he gets fired? then what are you going to do? will you move out then? will you even have the oppurtunity to move out

[luckytj24]

ever since i read this i can't stop thinking about it. i just wish there was an easy way out you know. cuz he's trying hard now... but i hate to be the one to tell him it's almost too late.
see he thinks it'll be the end of us though... at least he did the first time i brought this whole thing up last week.
damn life complications....
besides, i don't have anywhere to go.....................

[_so_this_is_luv]

Thats not true and you know it. Your mom said she would find you a place. and im sure that she wont have one by friday. and i know you dont want to go home. But im sure you could find something temporary untill you can get a place to live. not having anywhere to go is no excuse. Because this is your chance not only to get out, but to help bob get his life together. this is a once in a lifetime chance that you probably will never get again. If you have to go home for a week or two. maybe it would do you some good to relax for a while and not have to worry about rent and everything. it would give you a break from the world. It seems to me like you think everyone will think that you failed if you have to go back home. like you didnt make it in the real world. But you have done better then anyone i know because of everything that you have had to sacrafice for anthoer person. I can honestly say i take pride in saying that i am your friend and if you go home i think i might burst with pride. This will probably be one of the hardest

[luckytj24]

i've made the decision i want to move out, but i don't know how to even bring it up to him, because i gave him until friday.... i notice i keep needing this constant change for things. he did say if it came down to it, he would move back to his mom's trailer in gary....(oh so far away). and yes i know i need the help, but the conditions that come with it are too harsh. like i know i can stay at my mom's friends house, but bob would never be allowed over. i don't want to be "protected from him" that's not what i need. i just need the strength to make it clear to him what needs to change

[joshie0258]

I hated moving in with my parents after living on my own, i thought at first it was the worst thing that could ever happen but I did and they actually managed to stay a little more distant, To move home may not be what you want but its also you have to do what you can to make it, if you do move home you are not a failure, a failure is someone that relies on people the whole time to make it for them, I agree moving home is not the end of the world, but if its where you have to go for a few days or a week then go, parents want to be there, but they do not want to be a crutch for their children. I had to move home for a little while to get back on my feet and now live on my own with only mild problems now. I know you are a strong person and very strong willed, I just hope you stand up for yourself, dont falter. I love you mel and I hurt to see you like this. Good luck and let us know what happens.