Comments | lumenredundas: love like a friend

lumenredundas

love like a friend

Dec 10, 2008 22:56

yet another night of a cold shoulder followed by snoring. no amount of being cute or curtious or loving ever works. this relationship has seriously turned into a friendship where i get to see you nude every once in a while. what the fucked happened to the passion

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erinmeta December 11 2008, 05:30:22 UTC

do you guys go on dates regularly? or is more friend hang-outs? maybe try replicating non-sexual specifically romantic things for a little while. like, get dressed up for each other. have one make a really nice dinner for the other. go to a play or something you don't normally do. start playing chess. or strip chess!

lumenredundas December 11 2008, 08:01:28 UTC

we are the old married couple.

erinmeta December 11 2008, 14:08:05 UTC

so heed my advice! stir shit up. being cute/courteous/loving is not enough. need to remind yourselves that you are young and able to have romantic fun! even if it feels a little forced at first, you should do something like the above mentioned stuff. you know better than me what a good idea would be. maybe go to chicago. maybe go where you would meet all the time when you just started dating, stuff like that.

pandemonium___ December 11 2008, 14:29:33 UTC

I totally agree with this. I know Jen's not mushy mushy, but all girls like cutesy romantic things once in awhile. I know you're more than capable of being a stud, Jon. So just.. do it. + you'll totally get laid & it will be awesome.

deadmartyr December 11 2008, 06:04:49 UTC

send that bitch a smiley

lumenredundas December 11 2008, 08:01:43 UTC

shits played out

csjohnson December 11 2008, 13:47:16 UTC

bitches love the smiley face.

onemanbukkake December 11 2008, 14:30:41 UTC

TRUTH!

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onemanbukkake December 11 2008, 14:31:15 UTC

p.s. LOL @ the divergence of male vs. female advice.

erinmeta December 11 2008, 17:53:29 UTC

seriously i was thinking that when it was just me and tyler's comments.

jon, follow the girls' advice.

deadmartyr December 11 2008, 20:34:14 UTC

who doesn't like a little dichotomy in their advice?

deadmartyr December 11 2008, 20:34:58 UTC

also erin i still have your cuban anarchism book. you should send me your address so i can mail it back to you, since i'm practically never in milwaukee anymore. stupid school.

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bossme_30 December 11 2008, 14:50:38 UTC

"say you dont want it, say you dont want it, say you dont want it, then you slip it on in."

-henry rollins