Comments | lunatickle: my non-commitment ceremony

lunatickle

my non-commitment ceremony

Jun 21, 2005 19:24

So, big news. After much wrangling and theorizing, Miss T and I have decided to have a Ceremony in Lincoln Park on April 16, 2006. We're unsure what to call it...we can't quite stomach it being a wedding, and we're as committed as we plan to be, so "Commitment Ceremony" seems asinine. It's a Love Party. A Tryst. A Lifemeld ( Read more... )

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dbs62 June 22 2005, 16:51:07 UTC

Breathe!!

And do whatever the fuck feels right...that's my feedback...even if you bought "into the monogamy and eternity parts," if it was what was right for u 2 right now it's fine...If our gender/sexuality and every other GDamn thing are mutable why not our relationship configurations?

Will I see u in August?

lunatickle June 27 2005, 20:08:21 UTC

your response is one I was particularly interested in hearing, DbS -- you share a good bit of my world(s), my politics, etc, and you (please hear this with the deep respect it intends) are one of my community elders. I actually did take a deep breath when I read it, and felt a lot better. I think I am looking for sanction, permission, support, yadda yadda...and I'd do better to continue my internal research about how I feel. right now, I'm pretty righteous, I feel like we're creating our own thing in the tradition of our queer lives and legacies. mutable is a fabulous word. scary, though.

and yes, you sure will see me in August, provided I do enough extra shifts and odd jobs to afford it. I'm coming up with the DART RV crew on Monday, setting up in Bush Gardens on my own. I'm so very much looking forward to hanging out with you and the family. peace to you.

dbs62 June 28 2005, 17:15:04 UTC

good!! Glad we'll see ya! We'll be camping in the same area as a few years ago with Kay, Kelli and the grrls

from the co-conspirator herself fabulousmisst June 30 2005, 00:40:01 UTC

sorry to be so late to the party....

oh katy, you make me feel so righteous. it must be love!

many thanks to everyone who has offered kind words and support.

moominmuppet March 2 2006, 15:50:18 UTC

Is this still the correct final date? With all the travel plans I'm making, I don't want to accidentally schedule something on the same weekend...

*smooch*