Location: Out on a limb

[lusorius]

Ok, going to take a risk here. I usually avoid posting personal stuff because, well, it's personal, but I just need to get something off of my chest

Comments

[argillaceous_d]

Hey you

I've been a victim of this same "buyer's remorse" relationship scenario a few times myself, believe it or not.

It sucks, it truly does. Welcome to my world.

[lusorius]

Howdy stranger.

Sorry you had to go through this too. I think it sucks from both ends. It's certainly safer and easier to just stay friends on both sides, but when you're given that little taste of more, and then can't have it again, it's frustrating.

Thanks for understanding.

[lusorius]

That was my thought, to maintain the friendship and just see what happens. It's a little difficult, like being a passenger in a car with no control over where we're going or how fast.

Thanks

[evcelt]

That sucks, man. I think it's a good idea to stay friends with her... but if she starts sending out mixed signals again, I'd have another chat with her- make sure it's because she thinks she will be comfortable with it this time. You don't want this to be a roller-coaster ride.

[lusorius]

No, and that's what I want to avoid. I'm going to wait for a clear signal this time, and let her make the next move. If she wasn't such a really really good friend, it'd be easier, but if we can get past this hurdle, I think we'd work out well together. *sigh* never easy.

[narwhal85]

Girls are dumb. All of us. Sorry about that. :/

[lusorius]

Well, if by "dumb" you mean "Denies the possibility of good things because of overanalyzation", then I'd have to agree with you, although I've been guilty of that too. :D Just this time, I'm the one on the other end.