Is this what a friend would do?
On Saturday night, Philip and I were hanging out with a friend and her boyfriend. This boyfriend usually refuses to do anything with people, claiming he's too busy working on his thesis. Whenever he does interact with us, (4 times now? over the course of a year) he constantly insults and throws jibes at us.
This Saturday was no different. My research project, my course of study, and my hair were all insulted before we had spent 30 minutes with him. He then went on to alternatively insult us, or ignore the two of us to ask the friend if she remembered x,y,z that they had done, or what so and so had said to them, etc. Very pointedly removing us from the conversation.
At the end of the night, we are playing game and drinking. He decides he's too good to pay attention to the game, so he goes and grabs a guitar, and starts playing it while sitting at the table where the other three of us are playing a game. He only participates when he is reading, rather than guessing with the rest of us when everyone else is taking their turn. I went to the restroom twice, and commented that the toilet seat was left up... which somehow resulted in my being cussed out (I am a horrible bitch with no friends, no one likes me because I'm such a bitch... etc. etc.)
(Humorous, considering that the person who is yelling this at me barely knows me, certainly doesn't know anything about whether or not I have friends and if so how many, and is the rude anti-social one who seems to spend all of his time by himself smoking pot and working on his "thesis")
Anyway, my friend (the girlfriend of this particular world-class jerk) has not contacted me in the past three days. And I'm really ticked, because I would imagine that if someone who I was responsible for was to cuss out a good friend of mine, I would certainly try to apologize within three days... Or at least write/call to see if the person was okay, and say that I didn't agree with all the B.S. that the person was spewing at them.
This friend is having a get-together for an organization that I'm loosely in tonight, and had asked Philip and me to help out at an event on Saturday... I currently feel no need to attend either of these events. What do you think I should do?
This Saturday was no different. My research project, my course of study, and my hair were all insulted before we had spent 30 minutes with him. He then went on to alternatively insult us, or ignore the two of us to ask the friend if she remembered x,y,z that they had done, or what so and so had said to them, etc. Very pointedly removing us from the conversation.
At the end of the night, we are playing game and drinking. He decides he's too good to pay attention to the game, so he goes and grabs a guitar, and starts playing it while sitting at the table where the other three of us are playing a game. He only participates when he is reading, rather than guessing with the rest of us when everyone else is taking their turn. I went to the restroom twice, and commented that the toilet seat was left up... which somehow resulted in my being cussed out (I am a horrible bitch with no friends, no one likes me because I'm such a bitch... etc. etc.)
(Humorous, considering that the person who is yelling this at me barely knows me, certainly doesn't know anything about whether or not I have friends and if so how many, and is the rude anti-social one who seems to spend all of his time by himself smoking pot and working on his "thesis")
Anyway, my friend (the girlfriend of this particular world-class jerk) has not contacted me in the past three days. And I'm really ticked, because I would imagine that if someone who I was responsible for was to cuss out a good friend of mine, I would certainly try to apologize within three days... Or at least write/call to see if the person was okay, and say that I didn't agree with all the B.S. that the person was spewing at them.
This friend is having a get-together for an organization that I'm loosely in tonight, and had asked Philip and me to help out at an event on Saturday... I currently feel no need to attend either of these events. What do you think I should do?