快乐是选择

Nov 03, 2011 23:34

these days, i've been trying my best to be a good fren. i think i'm pretty successful^^. i've been a listening ear to my dear friends who've been my listening ear when i really needed it. and that period is over, i'm glad. now i know how it's like to be the supportive friend 99% of the time. i know you guys are at your stressest ever, 所以我谅解. it's a crossroad in life, school, work, relationships. whatever. it's hard dealing with all these larger than life issues by yourself, and i'm so thankful we're going thru them tog=) 一路上有你们相伴,路再难都很开心地走过。heartfelt thanks to each of u, and i don't regret tirelessly listening and helping u in whatever way i can. i never knew friends could be so similar/share so many ideals, we're >90% thinking alike! maybe that's why we're in the same course=D i'm thanking my lucky stars. to the friendships forged but muted over time, i guess, i've made more than a usual effort for most, those still worth salvaging, but if it's not worth it why try so hard? i rather have a small group of closeknitted friends. 我这个重感情的人,因为有所期盼,所以失望。更因为我对别人的期望如此苛刻,就像我对自己的要求那么严格。曾为随风而逝的友情淡淡悲哀,但我现在看淡了。任何感情都不能勉强。学会满足,是我人生中上的最难最难的一堂课,我敢说,现在我做到了=)

last wkend, went to punggol promenade. so pretty. so scenic. so relaxing. just my kind of life. i felt, for a few hrs, like i was back in lulea. peacefulness abound! and another eggciting thing i did was to go for tete a tete, which is an exchange of languages. je suis si heureuse de parler le francais avec des autres, meme shimin et meifen car je n'utilise jamais le francais avec vous si nous n'etions pas a l'evenement. omd it was great to know there's so many language enthusiasts in sg. like french, german, jap. but the food at nat. geog cafe is exorbitant and overpriced lah. my earl grey tea was 7bucks?!?! and it tasted more like ice than tea>< but i'm glad for the company. and i went for acm's halloween. my first time 'celebrating' halloween. hee. was quite fun watching them dressed in their scariest best. and watching hansel and gretel in open air.我喜欢去体验新鲜的事,不需要刺激,只要简单=)

met with MDA humans too. MADFUN lah.i have never laughed so much before, my abs are forming^^. its good to be able to share both lighthearted moments and serious stuffs. 原来每个人的学生生涯都有那么多精彩的故事!i hope i'll meet colleagues like them in the future! 对了,我的朋友要结婚了!那么快!第一次参加朋友的婚礼。我想,我们都渐渐走到人生另一个阶段吧。而我,正在学会随缘(也是我上了好久但没学完的一堂课)。有时,真的很难拿捏,因为不好好握紧缘分,它会溜走,但太心急,就会看不清一切。所以,相信有些事慢慢来比较快。慢慢来慢慢比较精彩。

最近听了好多歌曲,好词好句=D,再次找回写作的动力,我要写,我手写我心。好期待何时能静下心来在回首一切,特别是瑞典的日子,我的旅游日记part2! 还有我的newfound philosophies!<3 放宽了心情把什么都变美了,的确如此。为自己的成长自豪=)

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