Who of your friends have said that if you stop lying they will stop being your friend? Who of your friends would be so base to judge you differently on something that was not a lie?
Now, any good ol' friend would feel offended that you dishonored their trust and lied to them so long, not trusting in how they'd respond, but that's just 'cause it's a huge blow to their trust-you've been lying about something. I know I wouldn't judge ya for whatever it was (unless you raped somebody, then you would have no more working fingers-I detest rape and sexual abuse).
Don't dismiss everything through assumations, as I always say, 'cause then you always end up owing somebody money (there's a long thing that leads into that, but anyways).
You can turn any situation into what you want it to be with enough will-power and desire. It may not be a palace of your wishes, but you can still live just as well in a little shack surrounded by what you need.
eh, sometimes i keep lies up because i need to. it sucks, but i'm not in a position where i'm allowed to be quite as open about my thoughts as i'd like to be, so i have to limit my expression EVERYWHERE so as not to upset an important few.
everywhere applies to friends. once i trust them enough, then i stop lying because i know they'll at least understand my desire to keep the truth quiet. it's the ones that hear the truth after i trust them that grow apart that bother me- the ones that grow apart without a word, or trying not to say a word.
i love people. i just wish they would be a bit less chaotic at times. a lot less imposing.
well, a big question is, on the other end. if you've been lying about something, when you gain somebody's trust to that point, and then tell them you've been lying the whole time...will they be able to trust you? I guess that all depends on what you're lying about, and whether it's something that's been hidden or something that's been a change of true character of sorts.
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Now, any good ol' friend would feel offended that you dishonored their trust and lied to them so long, not trusting in how they'd respond, but that's just 'cause it's a huge blow to their trust-you've been lying about something.
I know I wouldn't judge ya for whatever it was (unless you raped somebody, then you would have no more working fingers-I detest rape and sexual abuse).
Don't dismiss everything through assumations, as I always say, 'cause then you always end up owing somebody money (there's a long thing that leads into that, but anyways).
You can turn any situation into what you want it to be with enough will-power and desire. It may not be a palace of your wishes, but you can still live just as well in a little shack surrounded by what you need.
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everywhere applies to friends.
once i trust them enough, then i stop lying because i know they'll at least understand my desire to keep the truth quiet. it's the ones that hear the truth after i trust them that grow apart that bother me- the ones that grow apart without a word, or trying not to say a word.
i love people. i just wish they would be a bit less chaotic at times. a lot less imposing.
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if you've been lying about something, when you gain somebody's trust to that point, and then tell them you've been lying the whole time...will they be able to trust you? I guess that all depends on what you're lying about, and whether it's something that's been hidden or something that's been a change of true character of sorts.
it's a strange world nowadays
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