wilma, i think you made a bad move when you called her out on taking money from your college account, which is technically, not your money. i mean, if she can take money from the account, it's obviously not solely in your name. i assume you have a joint account? well, regardless of whether your mom works or not (i don't think it's worth it to bring this up in context of a marriage) she has right to that money, so saying anything to her is insulting, out of line, you know? i know my parents get pissed over things like that, like when i point out something my dad has bought when he claims we "have no money"...but in the end, their jobs, their money. DONT GO THERE. i don't think you'd do it, but you really might want to consider apologizing to her for that. parents can't be hypocrites, they have like, hypocrite-free cards all right, so you shouldn't bother with that. you should apologize, just suck it up. so serious.
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your mom has an allowance? are you kidding me? regardless, it isn't really YOUR money. and considering that you are old enough now to have your own bank account, you could easily transfer your money to a different account. i think you are kind of spoiled and rotten if you call deciding between a new tv and a ski trip "challenging". like, that's the biggest, most pressing decision you have to make right now because everything else is taken care of. if you asked me which to choose, i would lash out at you too, god damn. i'm not getting a good picture of the situation though, because what does she want from you? i know you said "be her, do what she wants" but what is that in this situation? i mean, they don't want you to have a job...does she just want you to have no job and no money whatsoever? like, you should have no more than a bed and one blanket and a box of #2 pencils? from what you've told me...you are somewhat spoiled, and you think you're entitled to money from your parents, although i get it that it's because they'
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my father put money in my account for college living expenses. she resorted to taking money out of my account because her alloted money ran out.
she managed to spend 4 months worth of living expenses in a week.
i will not apologize to her. if i let her win, she'll keep doing it.
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