bummed..

[lycheebean]

what do you do/say/feel when you find out your best friend is pregnant then aborts... she told me after the fact..many thoughts about the pregancy thing as a whole but I'm hurt more that she did not call me/tell me until now...I would been by her side in a second...

a bazillion thoughts going through my head right now...........

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[cobaltgirl]

I've been there... but I was the friend. :/

All I can guess is that she didn't know how you would react to her choice. I personally didn't tell many people, but I did lose friends that I thought would be there for me. Family members too, forever. There is a lot going on in your mind at the time, and I bet if there was even a tiny question in her mind that you might not support her decision, she was too scared to tell you, and have to face that while she went though everything else too.

You're a good friend. She's so lucky to have someone that WOULD have been by her side. I wish I had had that.

[lycheebean]

I spoke to her mom the next day..she called me.. it was weird because her stories about the whole situation didn't match mine which was really weird. I didn't lead her mom on to them but I will be having a conversation with her soon(friend)..hopefully..
If I want to see her I gotta drive clear across state... which is fine ..but 'he' would be there..and it would be uncomfortable...i guess..

but i agree with you..that's what her mom said too...

i don't know..i'll give a little while ......

[donna_walk]

((Big Hug)) That would be a tough decision. Maybe she was scared you wouldn't understand? :(