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lydiaveldt

Contemplation of Sexuality

Feb 01, 2007 10:45

I am sitting here looking out the window as miryad of students troll by on thier way (presumtion) to class. It is warm here and I have no real complaints for myself and I begin to think about sex. I know why would I think about sex. First and explanation of how it is my thoughts turned toward sex ( Read more... )

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heralady February 3 2007, 07:07:07 UTC

random thoughts always pop into my head when I'm having sex, more than at any other time, except possibly when I'm trying to go to sleep and I've just had caffeine (weeee!). I couldn't even tell you right ofhand what these thoughts are, because they pop in for no reason at all, and then just drift away, as I become concerned with "other" matters. I probably think about taxes. Maybe what London smelled like in 1850 (bad). What I'm doing the next day. Whether or not I locked my car door. How odd the existence of hair is. Its like these random thoughts are just being pushed out of my head to make room for something else.

Describe sex? Sex is dancing.

sexysadie6666 February 3 2007, 23:39:54 UTC

Hmmm.... There's lots I could say on this subject but I doubt half of it is going to come out right anyhow. I'll just go ahead and do my best. To me, sex is something best shared between people who already have a connection. Note that I did not say love, but I do think sex is better when there is genuine caring and attraction involved. I've had sex with more people than I'd like to admit and sadly I can only say that 2 of them were worth it. That is not to say that sex without attachment is not pleasurable, but to me it is lacking those things which make sex worthwhile. For me, sex is not a means to an end, and by that I mean that the goal is not really orgasm. This may be somewhat influenced by the fact that I never do, but regardless the goal is in the act of sex itself. If all I wanted was an orgasm, I'd do it myself and I'd do it a hell of a lot more often :) That being said, I hope that nobody will ever hold that against me. I know that there is something to be said for that moment when both bodies are so perfectly ( ... )

mordere February 4 2007, 04:44:20 UTC

It took me a few days. But I just posted an entry that is relevant to this one. It's custom friends locked- I added you.

mordere February 4 2007, 04:45:03 UTC

Well, I haven't posted it yet. I'm working on it. By the time you see this (unless you sign on in the next few minutes and ZOMGcheckljs), it should be up.

randomsaint February 5 2007, 04:04:53 UTC

What I think about during sex depends greatly on my mood, current state of being, surroundings, what's actually happening, how the process began, and other various factors. I can say that during sex I have a lot of random thoughts that seem to be irrelevant. Not because I am not enjoying the moment and experience, but because I am enjoying the moment and experience. I am not worried about anything so I have no reason to have a logical train of thought, I let my mind wander while I submerse myself in what is happening. There are times when I am thinking, generally this is when I'm actively trying to do something and achieve a desired resualt. And still other times my thoughts are about my lover. Her body, each and every part of it. How she moves and feels. How she looks. I think about what I'm enjoying at the moment and what I would like to do. When I'm randomly thinking almost anything will flash thru my mind. When I'm actively thinking my thoughts have boundries. I do not think about violence or fear. I don't worry about ( ... )