Lj Idol Prompt Week 2: Three Little Words

[lyndasty]

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[notodette]

I'm so sorry. I cannot even imagine how hard it is.

[lyndasty]

It wasn't easy but, strangely enough, I feel a little better after talking about it.

[minnesattva]

Much sympathy. It's nearly six years since my brother died (I was just thinking of him yesterday....it's coming up on Thanksgiving, when it happened) and I had to call a lot of people and tell a lot of people and deal with them when my parents couldn't. The words never get easier to say, do they?

[lyndasty]

I'm so sorry. You'll be in my thoughts. No, the words never get any easier. I keep wondering when it'll sink it that she's gone. Logically I know it but I don't think my heart believes it even after all this time. :-(

[minnesattva]

I think we get hang up on milestones and how we "should" feel and coping the right way in the right order. We react differently as days and years go by. Right and wrong are less important, I think, than what's helpful or useful to us.

[lyndasty]

I agree. I've talked about Kat with my therapist & she's tried to show me the stages of grief but I don't work that way. There is no right way to deal with loss. We all deal with it differently. But talking about it helps.

[muchtooarrogant]

I'm impressed that you chose to write about such a deeply personal topic. You made a nice use of the refrain "those three poisonous wordds."

Thanks for sharing this.

Dan

[n3m3sis42]

I'm so sorry for your loss. :(

[m_malcontent]

How horrible. Sorry for your loss.

[lyndasty]

Thank you for your kind words & for reading.