why do you make a start with no means to go on?

[lyricalnights]

Someone please tell me why I hyperventilate at the thought of (1)talking on the phone and (2) telling someone that I don't have time to take on another activity. He won't even CARE that I'm saying "no," other than the fact that I should have said it three weeks ago but I didn't because of above reasons (1) and (2

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[jeddy83]

Oh honey, you're not a loser. Normal people (me even) absolutely feel this way. Telling people no is hard and talking to people over the phone, especially those you don't know, can be really scary sometimes.