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[machine___]

So, this is a continuation of my note I left on facebook. Yes, this is about the SAME GUY from 2 days ago. How dramatic.

----------For those of you who don't know me too well, probably dont know that I was picked on alot throughout elementary school. Not going into detail during that time period, but just know that it sucked. I never had the

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dude chill <3 (By Cristina)

[anonymous]

you say that people being nice is rare because it means denouncing jugement...well m'dear that is exactly what you aren't doing. so someone was rude to you etc, but you don't know him either... how can you go into such a tirade without putting on his shoes? second, even if the person happens to be a generally rude dude then you will not think anything of it if you are "nice", instead of having to bite your tongue. biting your tongue means you already judged him, despite not saying it out loud... lastly, even if this definition of "nice" is taken out of the question you need to step up and not stoop to his level. i was bullied too in elementary, let me tell you, but the biggest lesson i learned is that ignoring people like that is the best answer. don't waste your time and effort seeking revenge of all things... being petty doesn't solve anything. neither does bitching... living well is the best revenge, as they say

Re: dude chill <3 (By Cristina)

[machine___]

i really really really tried to be civil. i really did. i really tried to bite my tongue, shut the fuck up, and just tell him how it is. i told him that id really appreciate it if he didn't say rude things to me, in a completely calm voice and everything. even through it all he was still being immature and making fun of me...while i was talking. when it comes down to it, we dont know each other, and he insulted me. thats it. i tried to talk, yet he doesn't understand, and i know the right thing to do would be to leave it be, but i left it be before, and im tired of being the one whos degraded, and leaves it alone. i cant do it anymore, ive done it for the past...8 or so years.

boh. i suck. lawl.

Re: dude chill <3 (By Cristina)

[anonymous]

lol well then good luck avenging yourself i guess.