an off day

Feb 26, 2009 14:45

i feel kinda weird today. like i am just going through the motions but not really here. i have also decided now is time to panic. about moving and all the changes that requires. i thought i was totally ready to handle it but today i am scared. everything is going to be so different.

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jdtnirvana February 27 2009, 04:52:43 UTC
There's always anxiety with change, but look how beautifully you handled everything when things ended with you moved back to SD. Granted you knew people there, but still. If this move doesn't work out, what's the worst that could happen? Paul loves you, he'll figure out a way to make his career and his personal life work in harmony (and if you're not happy that's not harmonious). I think the best thing to do is recognize that it's a big change, but spend time with the people there that make that place special so you won't have any regrets.

And in case you couldn't tell, it's Way easier to give advice from over here than in your shoes.

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maddyjune February 27 2009, 16:03:45 UTC
i talked to paul about it and he was really supportive. i know i'll be ok, i always am, but i think it's fairly normal to be nervous, so i am.

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Nervous and Excited feliciatobias February 27 2009, 19:06:05 UTC
You should totally bounce back and forth, it's going to be an adventure!

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irissab February 28 2009, 07:53:44 UTC
Well said, jdtnirvana. Ditto everything.

I know when my brother and his wife moved they found a network of "people newly moved to ___" and made some new connections that way, for at least a little local support.

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