Am I saddened by it or not?? I dont really know

[madhatter69]

I just got homeand had a message on my phone from my sister, now keep in mind she lives 2 hours away from our father and I live how ever many miles it is from michigan to alabama, The way this message went was

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[poopoo2u]

Im sorry to hear. Even if he was a bastard to you that whole blood thing can be a bitch. *hugs*

[gravechild]

I know what it's like to have a shit father. I wouldn't have went eith

i hear ya

[helpusdie]

but good luck dealing either way*

[liquidstarshine]

yipes :(

[raindaisy]

Ah well. Relatives and that whole 'you were never around', 'or when you were around you were a complete ass.' (I'm having the second part) thing is tricky. But you seem to be handling it well. Wish I could offer you some advice or the very least an amusing anecdote to make you smile but damn. I got nothing. Ugh. Sad state of affairs.