I hate epiphanies.

[madmadeleine]

I was thinking about the decision making process that lead me to leave Christian, to physically be the one to pack a bag and move out, (although he chose to end our marriage.)  He had in mind that I would live with him almost indefinately, until I 'got myself sorted out.'  Looking back, and doing a bit of mind reading, he 'wanted a divorce.'  I don

Comments

[idefixlechat]

Don't be humiliated, that's how abusive relationships function and there is nothing to be ashamed of. Xxx

[madmadeleine]

Thank you sugar plum. We're looking forward to Saturday. What time can you come round? There is a fair in Gladstone Park, right across from us, Gladstonebury, and there will be dog show!

[lisekit]

I don't really ever wonder what X sees in Y, because hey, we're all made of teh different. I'm sure people don't know what D sees in me, or vice versa. But that's because they're not in this relationship. I wouldn't presume to understand anyone else's, either.

But on the other hand, I am frequently unsurprised when X leaves Y. So it goes.

[madmadeleine]

Fair. Although you and D are the cute couple of the year about 4 years running.

V sorry we didn't make it out. We did a boatload of bugger all instead.

[diotina]

I am so very glad to hear that your life is so much better. Mine is too. Isn't it ace? *big hugs*

[madmadeleine]

Huzzah to us!

[dyfferent]

I tend to assume that if someone's partner seems a bit of a jerk that they're not good with social situations, but then I didn't see you guys together but twice.

If I really dislike someone's partner, I just assume the partner must be a total tiger in the sack. :>