In and out of love
sorry for the depressing entry on valantines day, but a friend called me, and he was crying by the end of our conversation, and i'm a little upset at an older friend, though we are not as close.
so yea, i just got a call from a friend of mine. he was one of my best friends in high school, and he is just a really really nice guy. one of the best that a girl could find. And he fell in love with a friend that i knew from elementry school. she's almost 19 now. They were together for a long time, at least 2 years, i'm not completely sure. after he graduated something broke them up, but he still loves her, and he was around town still, still wanting to be with her, and to see her, and she was going out with different guys, flirting making out, and i found out she was big time flirting in front of him once, inviting him out with her and her friends, and then almost completely ignoring him. I understand that she probably thought he might have been okay, and they could hang out as friends, but he was/is still in love with her.
he is in the Navy now, and travling around and stuff... he told me he left, because he couldn't be around her and not be with her, and she wanted space. then he left and she still wanted him and she was sad. but it seems to me that she is still messing around with other guys, espically since she is in college now, and osu of all places, the party school. lol. so yea. I don't know. and I guess now, after he came back the first time, or was it the last time, i forget, she told him she doesn't love him anymore. and it crushed. and she has told him again this past week it seems like.
but he still loves her, and he still wants to make things work, and wants her to try too, but he's not sure how that will work. and he started crying on the phone with me just now. its really sad, because, even though they arn't really together, he has turned down other girls that wanted to go out with him or do things with him, and he told them no, because he was in love with someone else. how many guys do you know who would do that. not too many, but a few. and they are great guys.
Now I pose this question, who would still try to make things work, when they tell you that they do not love you anymore, and you know they have been seeing other people, and are hiding things from you and lying to you? I don't think I could...
so yea, i just got a call from a friend of mine. he was one of my best friends in high school, and he is just a really really nice guy. one of the best that a girl could find. And he fell in love with a friend that i knew from elementry school. she's almost 19 now. They were together for a long time, at least 2 years, i'm not completely sure. after he graduated something broke them up, but he still loves her, and he was around town still, still wanting to be with her, and to see her, and she was going out with different guys, flirting making out, and i found out she was big time flirting in front of him once, inviting him out with her and her friends, and then almost completely ignoring him. I understand that she probably thought he might have been okay, and they could hang out as friends, but he was/is still in love with her.
he is in the Navy now, and travling around and stuff... he told me he left, because he couldn't be around her and not be with her, and she wanted space. then he left and she still wanted him and she was sad. but it seems to me that she is still messing around with other guys, espically since she is in college now, and osu of all places, the party school. lol. so yea. I don't know. and I guess now, after he came back the first time, or was it the last time, i forget, she told him she doesn't love him anymore. and it crushed. and she has told him again this past week it seems like.
but he still loves her, and he still wants to make things work, and wants her to try too, but he's not sure how that will work. and he started crying on the phone with me just now. its really sad, because, even though they arn't really together, he has turned down other girls that wanted to go out with him or do things with him, and he told them no, because he was in love with someone else. how many guys do you know who would do that. not too many, but a few. and they are great guys.
Now I pose this question, who would still try to make things work, when they tell you that they do not love you anymore, and you know they have been seeing other people, and are hiding things from you and lying to you? I don't think I could...