Character Meme
Sexuality Headcanon Meme
The Easy Part
What is your…
1. Name: Erik Lehnsherr/Magnus/Magneto
2. Age: 82 (as of 2010)
3. Sex: Male
4. Gender Identity: Male
5. Sexual Orientation: Dead centre of 0-5 on the Kinsey scale.
The Functional Part
6. Let’s talk virginity. Have you lost yours? If yes, how was the experience? If no, how do you feel about it?
Yes. It was...fumbling but sweet. We were both too young really but...it was sweet. It probably wasn’t as young as people assumed we were, my wife and I didn’t live together until I was seventeen and it was another year and a half before we did more than sleep in the same bed. I think, as far as first times go, mine was by and far on the “good” side than the “bad” side.
7. Are you sexually active? How much so? Are you comfortable with your level of sexual activity?
At this moment I'm not sexually active, which...is fine for now. At this time, it works, and it's not as if it's new situation - I’ve been celibate more than sexually active.
8. Do you masturbate? How often and, if applicable, to what?
On occasion, although not as often as one might believe for a man who has been widowed at a very young age. Most often waking from a dream or remembering past lovers. For the most part, I find pornography boring.
9. Promiscuity: How many sexual partners have you had? Ideally, would you get around more/less if you could? Do you have strong feelings about others’ promiscuity/lack thereof?
Five partners. There are only two others I would have liked to include in the list, one was murdered before our relationship could progress, and the other...the timing simply didn't work out. I find promiscuity to be distasteful, but unless it's someone important in my life, it's not really any of my business.
10. Safe sex: Do you practice it? Do you know how?
Of course I know how. For the biggest part of my life, it has not been needed. At this point...I still see no further need to. My partners have always been healthy.
11. Do you now have or have you ever had an STD? Have you ever gotten or gotten someone else pregnant? If yes to either, how did this affect you? How anxious do these risks make you about sex?
No, I have not ever gotten an STI. But as I have several children...yes, it's safe to say I have gotten a woman pregnant. I wanted a family, so I was excited. I’m not really anxious about these risks, although the thought of having sex at all is a risk, because I do not have casual sex and do not have someone I trust that much in my life currently. C. doesn’t count because I’ll always trust him that much.
12. Let’s be frank: How good are you in bed? How good do you think you are? How comfortable are you with your sexual performance?
I've never received complaints.
The Fantasy Part
13. Physically speaking, what do you find attractive in a potential sex partner? Do you consider yourself attractive?
I know I'm quite handsome. I prefer a partner who is shapely and fit, a certain fondness for reddish hair and women with long legs.
14. What about mentally/emotionally? What kind of attitude or personality turns you on? Why? Do you consider your personality attractive?
I find a strength of character, confidence, and intelligence far more attractive than any physical trait.
15. Do you prefer to be on the top or the bottom or neither? Are you generally dominant, submissive, or neither? How does this relate to your personality out of bed, if at all?
I suppose you would say I am dominant although I'm not domineering. Generally speaking I preferring being on top but it's not much of an issue, whatever my lover and I compromise works for me.
16. How important is your partner’s satisfaction to you and why? Are you needy/demanding/giving/etc.? Is romance or emotional connection important to you in sex?
I've been told I'm enthusiastic. But yes, my partner's satisfaction is very important, in fact I cannot find my own, if my partner is not fulfilled. I'm also not one for causal relations, and so the emotional is very important. And I pride myself on being romantic with my partners.
17. Are you vanilla or kinky? If the former, how comfortable with/aware of non-vanilla sex are you? If the latter, what are your major kinks? How did you discover them, and how do you feel about them?
Fairly vanilla really. I'm a doctor a so I'm well aware of the more standard kinks, although it doesn't interest me.
18. What turns you off? Why?
I don't like being aggressively pursued, nor do I like childish behavior.
19. How active is your fantasy life? How often/how vividly do you fantasize about sex? Describe a fantasy situation for you.
I suppose as far as it goes, it's not as active as others. When I'm with a partner, I tend to fantasize more.
Some Gritty Details Part
20. Talk about your sexual awakening. How old were you when it happened? Who/what was the first thing that aroused you? How did it affect you emotionally?
I was nine when I first met M., the woman I would marry. I had a crush on her, but wasn't until years later, after the war had forced us apart that I began to have any sexual feelings in regards to her, not that I understood what it was. But as I thought of her one day, of the sunlight in her hair, of her smile, and I felt warm, almost a little drunk. It was a experience, more important as it came on the eve of my thirteenth birthday.
21. Have you ever done/fantasized about anything sexually that you’re earnestly ashamed of?
No, I have not.
22. Have you ever committed a sex crime? Have you ever been the victim of one? In either case, if yes, how did this affect you?
As a boy in I was...the victim of unwanted attention in the camps but it never progressed beyond that. However I haven't forgotten it, or how it felt, and ensure to not place another in that position with me as the aggressor.
23. Is there anything about your sex life or sexual preferences that you would never tell anyone? How sexually open/repressed are you in general? Why?
Generally speaking I follow the idea of 'A gentleman does not kiss and tell.' My private life I prefer to remain private. But there always things not open for discussion, it merely depends on who it is with.
24. How do you feel about sex, morally speaking? Beyond the basics, are there any sexual areas - homosexuality, prostitution, whatever - that you have strong, moral reactions to? Where do those come from?
I abhor crimes of a sexual nature. My wife was sexually abused, as where some of the patients I have treated, I am well aware of the scars it leaves. Children being abused in any sort of way infuriates me. But generally speaking, what occurs between consenting adults is their business, although I disapprove of adultery.
25. If you could change one thing about your sex life, would you, what would it be, and why?
I suppose not, really.
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Assume all answers are anonymous, as Magneto wouldn't answer them if they could be traced to him - as he is that private.
The Easy Part
What is your…
1. Name: Erik Lehnsherr/Magnus/Magneto
2. Age: 82 (as of 2010)
3. Sex: Male
4. Gender Identity: Male
5. Sexual Orientation: Dead centre of 0-5 on the Kinsey scale.
The Functional Part
6. Let’s talk virginity. Have you lost yours? If yes, how was the experience? If no, how do you feel about it?
Yes. It was...fumbling but sweet. We were both too young really but...it was sweet. It probably wasn’t as young as people assumed we were, my wife and I didn’t live together until I was seventeen and it was another year and a half before we did more than sleep in the same bed. I think, as far as first times go, mine was by and far on the “good” side than the “bad” side.
7. Are you sexually active? How much so? Are you comfortable with your level of sexual activity?
At this moment I'm not sexually active, which...is fine for now. At this time, it works, and it's not as if it's new situation - I’ve been celibate more than sexually active.
8. Do you masturbate? How often and, if applicable, to what?
On occasion, although not as often as one might believe for a man who has been widowed at a very young age. Most often waking from a dream or remembering past lovers. For the most part, I find pornography boring.
9. Promiscuity: How many sexual partners have you had? Ideally, would you get around more/less if you could? Do you have strong feelings about others’ promiscuity/lack thereof?
Five partners. There are only two others I would have liked to include in the list, one was murdered before our relationship could progress, and the other...the timing simply didn't work out. I find promiscuity to be distasteful, but unless it's someone important in my life, it's not really any of my business.
10. Safe sex: Do you practice it? Do you know how?
Of course I know how. For the biggest part of my life, it has not been needed. At this point...I still see no further need to. My partners have always been healthy.
11. Do you now have or have you ever had an STD? Have you ever gotten or gotten someone else pregnant? If yes to either, how did this affect you? How anxious do these risks make you about sex?
No, I have not ever gotten an STI. But as I have several children...yes, it's safe to say I have gotten a woman pregnant. I wanted a family, so I was excited. I’m not really anxious about these risks, although the thought of having sex at all is a risk, because I do not have casual sex and do not have someone I trust that much in my life currently. C. doesn’t count because I’ll always trust him that much.
12. Let’s be frank: How good are you in bed? How good do you think you are? How comfortable are you with your sexual performance?
I've never received complaints.
The Fantasy Part
13. Physically speaking, what do you find attractive in a potential sex partner? Do you consider yourself attractive?
I know I'm quite handsome. I prefer a partner who is shapely and fit, a certain fondness for reddish hair and women with long legs.
14. What about mentally/emotionally? What kind of attitude or personality turns you on? Why? Do you consider your personality attractive?
I find a strength of character, confidence, and intelligence far more attractive than any physical trait.
15. Do you prefer to be on the top or the bottom or neither? Are you generally dominant, submissive, or neither? How does this relate to your personality out of bed, if at all?
I suppose you would say I am dominant although I'm not domineering. Generally speaking I preferring being on top but it's not much of an issue, whatever my lover and I compromise works for me.
16. How important is your partner’s satisfaction to you and why? Are you needy/demanding/giving/etc.? Is romance or emotional connection important to you in sex?
I've been told I'm enthusiastic. But yes, my partner's satisfaction is very important, in fact I cannot find my own, if my partner is not fulfilled. I'm also not one for causal relations, and so the emotional is very important. And I pride myself on being romantic with my partners.
17. Are you vanilla or kinky? If the former, how comfortable with/aware of non-vanilla sex are you? If the latter, what are your major kinks? How did you discover them, and how do you feel about them?
Fairly vanilla really. I'm a doctor a so I'm well aware of the more standard kinks, although it doesn't interest me.
18. What turns you off? Why?
I don't like being aggressively pursued, nor do I like childish behavior.
19. How active is your fantasy life? How often/how vividly do you fantasize about sex? Describe a fantasy situation for you.
I suppose as far as it goes, it's not as active as others. When I'm with a partner, I tend to fantasize more.
Some Gritty Details Part
20. Talk about your sexual awakening. How old were you when it happened? Who/what was the first thing that aroused you? How did it affect you emotionally?
I was nine when I first met M., the woman I would marry. I had a crush on her, but wasn't until years later, after the war had forced us apart that I began to have any sexual feelings in regards to her, not that I understood what it was. But as I thought of her one day, of the sunlight in her hair, of her smile, and I felt warm, almost a little drunk. It was a experience, more important as it came on the eve of my thirteenth birthday.
21. Have you ever done/fantasized about anything sexually that you’re earnestly ashamed of?
No, I have not.
22. Have you ever committed a sex crime? Have you ever been the victim of one? In either case, if yes, how did this affect you?
As a boy in I was...the victim of unwanted attention in the camps but it never progressed beyond that. However I haven't forgotten it, or how it felt, and ensure to not place another in that position with me as the aggressor.
23. Is there anything about your sex life or sexual preferences that you would never tell anyone? How sexually open/repressed are you in general? Why?
Generally speaking I follow the idea of 'A gentleman does not kiss and tell.' My private life I prefer to remain private. But there always things not open for discussion, it merely depends on who it is with.
24. How do you feel about sex, morally speaking? Beyond the basics, are there any sexual areas - homosexuality, prostitution, whatever - that you have strong, moral reactions to? Where do those come from?
I abhor crimes of a sexual nature. My wife was sexually abused, as where some of the patients I have treated, I am well aware of the scars it leaves. Children being abused in any sort of way infuriates me. But generally speaking, what occurs between consenting adults is their business, although I disapprove of adultery.
25. If you could change one thing about your sex life, would you, what would it be, and why?
I suppose not, really.
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Assume all answers are anonymous, as Magneto wouldn't answer them if they could be traced to him - as he is that private.