Comments | makittiepoet: I don't get it

makittiepoet

I don't get it

Mar 16, 2005 15:08

all the color is gone and he has only been gone five days. It didn't start until Monday night, but I am officially in a funk mood. I am thinking the most awful thoughts of making a command decision about the relationship because he is still stuck in the maybe/I don't know. I don't want to let the relationship go, but I am beginning to think that ( Read more... )

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1271997 March 17 2005, 20:56:59 UTC

Don't you think you should be talking with an adult and not your daughter about the adult situations in your life? She is so young......and is formulating her beliefs about the world through her experiences with you. If you tell her that a man will never love you, don't you think she will associate herself with you believing that you are un lovable? Using her as your emotional confidant is wrong, she is your daughter and deserves to be a little girl, who only has to think about life from a little girl's point of view. Protect her and give her the childhood that you didn't get to have. Don't make her grow up too fast.

Wow makittiepoet March 18 2005, 06:45:57 UTC

I can understand where you are coming from, but when my daughter asks me questions I don't lie to her. Once every two to three years I break down like that, and the crying never lasts longer than a few minutes. I do talk to adults about my problems, although there are not many. She knows enough about love and people that she will be fine. I really don't believe I am making my child grow up too fast by answering her questions.

You know, now that I think about it: makittiepoet March 18 2005, 12:39:38 UTC

My daughter sees the relationship I have with my boyfriend and how we are affectionate and adoring to each other. I think actions speak louder than words, and she knows through living it that she is loved and so am I.
Also, how do you know anything about my childhood? I don't leave many of my posts open to the public and I am curious to know how you might know something so personal about me.

Re: You know, now that I think about it: 1271997 March 18 2005, 16:34:46 UTC

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