It was the worst of times... it was the best of times

[malaryush]

Okay, so most of you know that the last month and a half have been very very rough for me. I could probably say this has been one of the roughest periods of my life... but it's also been one of the best. The past few weeks I have been forced to face a lot of things I tried to ignore. I started dealing with a lot of my residual issues that stem

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[littlebill]

Lessons are rarely easy to learn, but it's one you did. And I think in the end it'll be good for you. Your entry reminds me that we are friends and that we live within 20 mins of each other via train (maybe longer but not by much) and we really should hang out more. I have very few friends here as well.

It sounds like you're really turning yourself into a better direction and I'm sure in the end you'll really be better off for all of this change.

[missdivakitty]

I'm trying to loosely organize another movie night/pub crawl for this friday night... so both of you keep that in mind, and spread the word.

[myownperdition]

I went through a lot of similar realizations over the past couple years as well. As tough as it is, you're right, it's good. You find yourself and your strength at these times.

[area69]

You are better off forgetting. That way, when you get a friends request ten years from now on LJ/MySpace/whatever takes over, you'll be like "damn...I haven't heard from you in forever. I hate losing touch...but, damn. How've you been?" And then the catch-up game ensues. It can suck, but it can be better than cut-off drama. Silence can often be better.

[malaryush]

As my friend C. says... to make a fuss, to remark to the person means you're allowing them the chance to reetifty their behavior and still be your friend. I don't want to give this person/ people a chance. I want them to just go back to their self centered lives and forget they ever knew me like I will forget I ever knew them