wondermint (its better than spearamint)

[malcairad]

The worse thing someone can do to themselves is to wonder about what could have been.
The worse thing someone can do to someone else is to tell them what might have been.

what do you think?

Comments

[phoenixmla]

I think it all depends on how it is treated. It is okay to reflect on everything and the possibilities that could have been, then use that for your future..... But say wallowing in it and falling in a depression and such would be the wrong way.

Now telling someone else could be the same circumstances.... if it's a memory where both of you can think back on and laugh about how something could have been different, etc. Well that is okay, if it hurts the person.... a no no.

Everything depends on how it is presented, those are my thoughts.

[pillow_girl]

I totally agree. Complete torture to the mind.

[malcairad]

HOW DID YOU KNOW?!?!?!?!?