First off, it's perfectly normal to have doubts in any relationship. Make a list of all of the good things about the relationship, then a list about the bad things. If the "bad" list is bigger, you know it isn't worth it. What is important here, is you being happy.
The issue with your parents about his race is a tricky situation. It's better to tell them about it now, then let the relationship go on and get more serious. You need to find out what kind of a reaction they'd have as soon as possible, then you can decide what you are going to do from there.
Good luck with everything. If you need to talk, I'm here!
Thank you for the advice. . .I'm not worried about my parents they know who I'm dating (he lives right next door.) It is my extended family that I am worried about. See my family is/was raised in the religious way, so I really don't know how they would react. I know when my cousin married a hindu they weren't so happy. So I am really not sure what they would think of him.
Yo my crunk Nigga!!miami_princessFebruary 23 2006, 06:56:32 UTC
I know what's up with the Ron situation. Remember Robert? Yeah, he used to do all of those things at first and all of a sudden it's like it just came to a dead stop. It was weird how it happened. I know what you're meaning on the race and age thang too because those are reasons I didn't want to be with him. Remember i'm more of a Latin/Cuban kinda picker. I like em dark but not too dark. I like em tan I guess you can say. I don't want no white boy though lol lmao!!! We all know white boys ain't got nothing. SORRY WHITE BOYS!!! Well, I know we going to be pretty damn crunk this year. I can tell once we get better we will be the crunkest niggaz in town. :)
Ok...I'm going to start off at the first paragraph. Don't ya just love those small little things that make you smile without knowing it? I went through the same problem a while back. Its nice knowing someone cares. I got Jason to do the small little things again when I started doing small little things for him. It took him a while to come around but it worked. As for the age...me and jason have an eight year difference so i can totally relate to that. Sometimes it hits you and you wonder if your really right for that person because you think well when im 22 hes going to be 30 and he will probably die way before you but I think about how loving he is, and something makes you be with him now then why would age matter. Plus I fought so hard to be with him
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First off thank you for you advice; especially with the dating situation. Today my Dad and I made up and cleared some things up. So we are back on talking terms. Now about my rapist/molester I reported it in October of 2002 and it finally went to court in February of 2004. He was found guilty on all 3 counts and was sentence 28 years with the just to get out on probation in 22 years. I did try to sue him in past but he put everything he owned in someone else's name. I am going to try and sue again because he is stupid enough to put his things back in his name. I am sorry that it happened to you too. I too may not be able to have kids because of what he did and because the cancer that he caused me to get can ruin my chances too. But that is why I have my best friend to be a serrogate mom and / or I just may adopt. ~Mal~
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The issue with your parents about his race is a tricky situation. It's better to tell them about it now, then let the relationship go on and get more serious. You need to find out what kind of a reaction they'd have as soon as possible, then you can decide what you are going to do from there.
Good luck with everything. If you need to talk, I'm here!
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Love your crunkest NIGGA,
Miami_Princess
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