Give me a fuckin break!!!!!

Nov 14, 2005 23:52

Well, lately I have noticed that my friends are acting a lil bizarre about the fact that I am with someone now. I thought they would be happy for me since it has been so long that I have actually been with a decent guy. I guess now that I am spending time with someone else and meeting new people it has become a problem for some of my friends. I ( Read more... )

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adrarosemortem November 14 2005, 21:51:01 UTC
*hugs*
Preach on, Sista!

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pulse_state November 15 2005, 02:04:37 UTC
I'm finding that now that I am with someone (and you should know this, since you were present at the [re-]start of my relationship, hehe), a lot of people can't accept that I am happy with someone... and it's like, my friends, you should be happy for me, since, umm, yeah, I did finally find what I've always wanted. And I am very happy with it, so what gives with the attitude?!

Just pay attention to what you're doing, and let everyone else figure out what they're doing. :)

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cityclubfreak November 15 2005, 06:00:36 UTC
Im pretty sure that everyone is happy for you....but seriously how many times have I talked to you in the past several weeks? I have called you about 10 times with no answer and yeah....pretty annoying. Its one thing to be happy but the way its going.....its turning out to what I knew it would. I guess I just dont understand it...I have never been so involved with someone to actually part father with my close friends over it.

call me rude, a bitch..yeah whatever...but its pretty bad that out of all my friends that I have I dont talk to barely any of them anymore.

I can only talk to Kyle about everything so many times a day lol

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virus_x November 15 2005, 16:01:11 UTC
Who's unhappy? I was just telling Pulse State the day after the party that I really couldn't see how Ed would be a bad choice. He's intelligent, not bad looking, has a nice house, maintains a good job, he's talented and a man of obvious means. I really don't see what the problem how there could be any problem with that. Now, yes, I'm sure some that were seriously after you might not exactly be ecstatic about Ed beating them to the punch, but only those that can't see and recognize something good for what it is would actually express displeasure with your new relationship, as far as I'm concerned.

People whining and begrudging you spending time with Ed need to, as my father once said: 'get themselves some business, and stay out of yours'. It's still a relatively new relationship, and there's still a high degree of novelty left in it. You're supposed to use that. This is the time that you're supposed to be spending a lot of time with your significant other. When I was with Erin, I disappeared from City Club, altogether, and ( ... )

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bornbytragedy November 16 2005, 07:06:31 UTC
Hey woman... I think that's just how things go. Some people just fear they will lose you forever in the marriage/kids trap. Honestly, confident and grown people won't really feel that way. This is how you know which friends are real and which ones are just selfish. I've lost plenty of people and take shit all the time for making the choices I do. I just had a girlfriend of mine get married a month ago and it was scary but I love her and I want to see her happy even if we don't talk 56498460 times a day on the phone. It's quality.... blah blah. Don't worry too much, having someone you relate to and can have a relationship with is really unique. Most people cling on to other people because they don't want to be alone. That's the real issue. Don't let people project their issues on you. Much Love.. call me if you wanna chit chat :)

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