Hey-yo. (Update & new weird dream)

[malkav]

So um, I haven't updated in ages. It's actually for a happy reason this time-- I've just been busy with RL, and well, I've been too lazy to type out my dreams. I'm in that same 'new' apartment which I mentioned last time, which is clean and in a nice part of town, and quiet. It's as tiny as a shoebox, but the rest of it makes up for it. I've

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[cynnerth]

Hey! I was just thinking about you today. After I wrote my post about meeting my husband, and a few people said they didn't know about Stu...I remembered that you were the one I was talking to quite a bit while I was becoming disgruntled with my Stu situation. You were kind enough to remind me gently that I had originally wanted the arrangement we had so I shouldn't complain that I got it. You were so right. :)

Goodness.

[malkav]

I did? ... I really said that? That sounds, no offense in case I'm not the person who said it, awfully cold. And, sadly, I don't even remember what arrangement you and Stu had. Seriously, I swear I've lost whole years of my life due to bad memory, which I apologize for. *hugs tons*

Re: Goodness.

[cynnerth]

Oh no problem, I didn't expect you to remember. But for some reason it stuck in my mind. I had decided that I was tired of trying to have a full relationship. I just wanted to go out and have fun on the weekends and then not bother with the guy during the week. No strings, no expectations. I learned pretty quick that I'm not made to have that type of relationship. It was a great lesson to learn.

Re: Goodness.

[malkav]

(Heh. I decided my original reply was too wordy and deleted it and removed a line or two, then reposted... but not fast enough. :P Ah well.)

*hugs* Actually, I think most people go through that no-strings-attached phase, and some find it's helpful and some find it to be horrible. For me, I've found it can be either-- it all depends on if I've ended up falling too much for the person or not. At any rate, I think it's a good thing that you tried it-- at least now you know it's not for you.

[lalionne]

I am so happy for you, babe. You were so brave to finally move out of your situation and try for something better. I am so proud of you, and how far that you have come. It's wonderful to know that you are busy and happy. I no longer role-play, but I do miss some of our chats, and your overall sweet presence. It's always wonderful to get updates from your livejournal.

Lots of love, sweetheart.

*hugs*

[malkav]

I don't rp anymore, either. It's not like I took some stand against it or find anything wrong with it... I'm just not inspired, and I think maybe I hit the peak of RP-fun and now I have other stuff to do. :P

I miss you too, y'know. And I wonder how you're doing and such. If you ever feel like chatting & have the time, I've got contact info set up on my LJ info page. :o)

Mwah.

Re: *hugs*

[lalionne]

I'll look into it. I don't have ICQ or AIM or any of that stuff at the moment, but I can look into it.

Mwah sweetheart. :)