I know what you're getting at. That pisses me off to. That's why almost all of my ex-boyfriend's cheated on me, because I wouldn't put out.
Luckily I have an awesome guy (sorry to brag, but...) who wouldn't touch me until I was comfortable, & still never ever even asks me to return the favors (I actually have to beg). & at one point the contact became too much. During school times, I got to see him maybe four hours a day, & two of them we spent doing that junk. He actually set me down & asked if we could back off, because he didn't spend time with me to get or give any, he just really enjoyed spending time with me in general. He said he'd much rather just lay next to me & hold hands than spend most of that time having physical contact.
What the world needs is some more guys like Russ. Really. I wish every girl could have one. He never pushes when you say 'no'. He understands the meaning of 'stop'. He just loves to spend time with his girl in general. & he never asks for anything. :/
I know where your coming from also. When I was in highschool, I people called me "super virgin". All because I wouldn't put out, and now look at me, a 1yr old child. Lol, no, but really, I have only been with two people, and I still find that hard to take. I always had this fairytale vision of marrying the person I gave it up to, and only being with one person the rest of my life. When that didn't happen, and I ended up being with a second person, I actually cried. I felt like such a whore. Of course him and I are married now, and happily, but at times I still feel bad, when I think about the fact that I have two notches on my belt. But thats just me, I don't think sex is something that should just be thrown around, I honestly don't understand how so many females can just lay down for anyone, and at that, not even feel dirty. Thinking about it makes me want to take a shower, lol. I love sex, and I will be the first to admit it, but if I don't have more then just physical attraction for the person, then I can't be turned on. I have to
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I had that dream too. hee. You know, of losing it to someone & marrying them. Unfortunately, the person I fell in love with first was a girl & she basically just took my innocence, I guess. Now I'm with a boy that I've slept with, & I'm half a virgin (long story). I think Jess should share her V-card with me. I feel weird just having a \-card. Or a /-card. haha. But yeah, Monica, I know how you feel. I've slept with two people (just without the real sex & without the kid), & I feel slightly groady too. ...ew. I need a shower.
Lol, half a v-card. Thats something new. But, hey, I have to give you props, your 18? right? And still a virgin, I'd say thats something to be proud of. I mean, most people lose it at like 11-14, and your a pretty girl, so I'm sure you have had the chance, multiple times. So, the fact that you have kept it intact this long, says something about the type of person you are. It shows self respect.
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I know what you're getting at. That pisses me off to. That's why almost all of my ex-boyfriend's cheated on me, because I wouldn't put out.
Luckily I have an awesome guy (sorry to brag, but...) who wouldn't touch me until I was comfortable, & still never ever even asks me to return the favors (I actually have to beg). & at one point the contact became too much. During school times, I got to see him maybe four hours a day, & two of them we spent doing that junk. He actually set me down & asked if we could back off, because he didn't spend time with me to get or give any, he just really enjoyed spending time with me in general. He said he'd much rather just lay next to me & hold hands than spend most of that time having physical contact.
What the world needs is some more guys like Russ. Really. I wish every girl could have one. He never pushes when you say 'no'. He understands the meaning of 'stop'. He just loves to spend time with his girl in general. & he never asks for anything. :/
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I had that dream too. hee. You know, of losing it to someone & marrying them. Unfortunately, the person I fell in love with first was a girl & she basically just took my innocence, I guess. Now I'm with a boy that I've slept with, & I'm half a virgin (long story). I think Jess should share her V-card with me. I feel weird just having a \-card. Or a /-card. haha. But yeah, Monica, I know how you feel. I've slept with two people (just without the real sex & without the kid), & I feel slightly groady too. ...ew. I need a shower.
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