Now I'm sooo Lonely, I'm so afraid to die....

[man2be]

Cause I know that all the angels say goodbye.I begin to wonder if telling my mom and dad was the best idea at this point

Comments

Just hang in there...

[mihoshi23]

On a note..parents usually take such things very hard, which is one reason why I haven't come out yet...but, your moms words were very, very inappropriate and rather make me angry aswell....and I am very very glad she is wrong about Eric and that he's being supportive of you..*Snuggles and pets you.*

Other Peoples' Relationships

[anonymous]

Nobody will ever understand the dynamic two people who are in love share. That's why it's dangerous to ask for advice from others about relationships. Not that you asked for advice anyway-- people, especially parents just love to stick their opinions in; they convince themselves that they're trying to help (in their fucked up little ways, justifying, rationalizing-- "this will be good for him once he understands.. he'll see...") but in reality they're fucking things up. And, many times it's selfish advice; advice they want you to follow because it will make them feel better knowing that you're listening to their shit-- even though many times they don't have a CLUE about what's going on around them and in their child's life. It's ironic, really. One thing I've learned is this: Don't let others interfere in your relationship. Noone will ever understand, especially if you've found your soul mate. NOONE will ever understand.

J.
email me: jhrose22@hotmail.com

Your Love (From Hayden)

[anonymous]

Dude, your life is your life and no one else can tell you how to live it or who to love in it. Your mom is just pissed right now. My Dad hasn't talked to me in months. He will come around, I just don't know when he will come around. My point is, she WAS VERY wrong for saying that. The way you talk about Eric makes me know you two are very much in love. I am glad you found someone who can love all of you, your true self, and your mom should be happy for you too. Not too many people find that kind of love. Maybe she is just jealous that you have ( just speculating here or trying to understand why parents can be so cruel). You and Eric deserve more than that. You too stay strong and keep on lovin'. Later, Bro

[man2be]

Thanks guys for all your advice. I really appreciate all of your kind words and encouragement. I was kinda worried about the way my mom is taking this at first, but I'm not really anymore. I have Eric and I have friends. She can't take any of that away from me even if she can make my life more difficult or disown me. I don't think she'd do the latter because she gets really depressed easily and she feels that my sister and I are her only reasons for living... She won't even let me drive my lil sister to the park because she's paranoid we'll wreck and by her logic, if she doesn't let us ride together she doesn't have a chance of losing us both in a car wreck. I mean... she does care... she's just a bit diluded in her efforts. Thanks all again,

-Arsiei

In the Words of Will Smith

[mrfriendlyman]

"Parents just don't understand"

I'm so calling you today...and you're gonna like it.

JTF