Hi. I don't know why I never got the email for this add but I'll add you back. I should warn you that my life has tripped upside-down right now. I'll add you but I'm still on bed rest. I guess you can see from my recent posts what's going on if Marlena hasn't already told you.
As soon as I'm active again, I'd love to get to know you though I don't think we will be ttc for some time...though when we do, we know it HAS to be ivf...but the risk of this episode happening again is higher now. If you'd rather I not add you until I can be an active friend, I understand. Just let me know. :)
Hi. I see we share one community, I think, so I'm not sure from where you have stalked me as I am not even a regular in that community.
I'm usually very open and happy to meet new people but I'm going through a very big loss right now. I believe there is a public post about it with few details but that should be enough to explain why I feel the need to keep to myself right now.
I'm not even reading livejournal right now; just updating to let people know how my recovery is going. I'm also on bed rest after major sugery that has left me with a 6.5 inch incision so I have very little time and/or energy.
Perhaps once I become active again but I'm only just now home from the hospital. I don't mean to be rude and am usually very interested in friendly people in my regional area... but my life is at it's ultimate low right now and I try to be a very good and active friend and I just can't do that right now.
Perhaps in a few weeks. If you are still insterested, drop me another line. Thanks.
Oh. Maybe I came off wrong... I did read some about your hardships and recent loss.. it's just inappropriate for me to really say anything, being a complete stranger and all.
I actually followed you over from a derogatory comment that was made toward you that even without knowing you came off as a repulsively low blow. That led me to pry about what it was, and since I had a close friend who went through similar, it struck a chord..
I honestly didn't mean to imply anything more than the face value of my comment. It was only intended as a harmless greeting. I'm guessing it looked like I wanted on your friends list, but that's really not what I meant..
Sorry to come off so selfish in what was entirely meant as a random extension of friendliness. I hope your healing is smooth and as quick as those things can go, physically and emotionally..
i clicked on you from april_08_babies because, get this, my name is Mandy, my birthday is 4/8/74, and i am currently pregnant and due 4/15/08. i read your bio and thought, "OMG LIKE KISMET," and then i saw your public post about the pregnancy being ectopic. i am so very sorry for your loss, and i hope your husband and family are providing you the support you need. this is my 4th pregnancy in 4 years; i've had 3 previous miscarriages. i honestly do understand how painful and upsetting this is for you. please accept my wishes that you heal, physically and emotionally, as soon as possible.
Thank you so much for your kind words; it means a lot to me. Could you please tell april_08_babies that I wish to be taken off their info page? I tried but had already left the community and couldn't figure out who to talk to about it.
Wow, at our names & b-days! I was named after a little old lady that would give my father milk & cookies everyday after school while he was waiting for his mom to come home.
I'm sorry for your previous losses & hope that all stays very well for you with this pregnancy. The best of luck to you!
I love meeting new people that it feels like we start out with so much in common!
P.S. Do you mind if I add your personal journal? I'd rather not have baby journals on here right now for obvious reasons but baby talk in a journal doesn't bother..just constant, you know? Maybe once I can be a real person (healed enough to work, drive, etc). Anyway, I went to your personal lj and can totally see why you were like "KISMET!" about me & would love to have you as an lj friend!
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As soon as I'm active again, I'd love to get to know you though I don't think we will be ttc for some time...though when we do, we know it HAS to be ivf...but the risk of this episode happening again is higher now. If you'd rather I not add you until I can be an active friend, I understand. Just let me know. :)
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Randomly, you seem like a very nice person.
That's all really. Random greeting. :)
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I'm usually very open and happy to meet new people but I'm going through a very big loss right now. I believe there is a public post about it with few details but that should be enough to explain why I feel the need to keep to myself right now.
I'm not even reading livejournal right now; just updating to let people know how my recovery is going. I'm also on bed rest after major sugery that has left me with a 6.5 inch incision so I have very little time and/or energy.
Perhaps once I become active again but I'm only just now home from the hospital. I don't mean to be rude and am usually very interested in friendly people in my regional area... but my life is at it's ultimate low right now and I try to be a very good and active friend and I just can't do that right now.
Perhaps in a few weeks. If you are still insterested, drop me another line. Thanks.
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I did read some about your hardships and recent loss.. it's just inappropriate for me to really say anything, being a complete stranger and all.
I actually followed you over from a derogatory comment that was made toward you that even without knowing you came off as a repulsively low blow. That led me to pry about what it was, and since I had a close friend who went through similar, it struck a chord..
I honestly didn't mean to imply anything more than the face value of my comment. It was only intended as a harmless greeting. I'm guessing it looked like I wanted on your friends list, but that's really not what I meant..
Sorry to come off so selfish in what was entirely meant as a random extension of friendliness. I hope your healing is smooth and as quick as those things can go, physically and emotionally..
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i clicked on you from april_08_babies because, get this, my name is Mandy, my birthday is 4/8/74, and i am currently pregnant and due 4/15/08.
i read your bio and thought, "OMG LIKE KISMET," and then i saw your public post about the pregnancy being ectopic.
i am so very sorry for your loss, and i hope your husband and family are providing you the support you need.
this is my 4th pregnancy in 4 years; i've had 3 previous miscarriages. i honestly do understand how painful and upsetting this is for you. please accept my wishes that you heal, physically and emotionally, as soon as possible.
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Wow, at our names & b-days! I was named after a little old lady that would give my father milk & cookies everyday after school while he was waiting for his mom to come home.
I'm sorry for your previous losses & hope that all stays very well for you with this pregnancy. The best of luck to you!
I love meeting new people that it feels like we start out with so much in common!
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i politely asked the mods of the community to remove you. :)
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