And now that im doing it, its like the ladies can smell the testosterone or something. This is not easy, specially when i wake up and my bed looks like a camping tent.
For somebody (especially a guy) who's used to having sex all the time, to just stop. Is not easy, that includes no Masturbation either. Im doing this just to see if i have self-control, and im doing pretty well, even after i turned down two of the finest females on my Phonebook.
You must be the 6th person to say that, lol. Well i was having a conversation with some friends, girls and guys and then someone says that all men are horny all the time, blah, blah blah, they cant leave without it. If they dont fuck they'll go crazy watch a porno and masturbate, some girls say that we do some say that we dont, Of course, i said that we are just as capable as any women to calm our cravings, lol. So then it became a yes-no arguement (playful talk that's all) but then on my way home, i see u know Clubs, strip clubs, Adult Stores and such, so i say to myself, damn we all this shit around, no wonder we dogs. The next day i get horny, ready to call someone up and see where it goes, but then i thought to myself "she might've been right" and i just love proving people wrong. And i decided to see if you know that's all we think and breath all the time "sex" some guys have sexless life cause they cant get any so that dont count, but for people like me, who often crave it, its hard as hell. Its actually fun, cause as soon as i
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I stopped having sex back last November.. after being highly sexually active for 8 years solid. It was tough at first, but now it doesn't even phase me. I've had sex twice since then just because the other person wanted it so bad.
Are you still trying the abstinence thing? I think I could go w/o having sex. In fact, I have, but I don't think I could without porn and other stuff.
I think with something like that it's almost like reverse psychology. You say you aren't going to do it, but there are women who will try because they know that deep down it's something that you WANT to do but are just refraining from and if they push the right buttons you'll give in. I can't tell you how many times I haven't even been thinking about sex and just because someone I know is attracted to me tries to play hard to get I go in seduce mode.
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I promise it gets easier!!!
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I think with something like that it's almost like reverse psychology. You say you aren't going to do it, but there are women who will try because they know that deep down it's something that you WANT to do but are just refraining from and if they push the right buttons you'll give in. I can't tell you how many times I haven't even been thinking about sex and just because someone I know is attracted to me tries to play hard to get I go in seduce mode.
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