Why bother..yams rubbish.
I sometimes wonder why i was chosen to be admin in the first place...who did that..was it you Davina?? lol
I really struggle with the responsibility sometimes, i guess cause i want to be fair. With over 300 members and at least 4 new members a week, it is simply impossible to be fair.
I've read alot of replies to the journals over the past day, complaining that admin hasn't replied to this..or admin always pulls the posts. We take away your freedom of speach. What a load of bullshit. If you don't know why you got banned..then the reason is: not because you were bitching, not because of who the bitching was about. It was because you made a mockery of yams and its true innocent members. You didn't like being there, you would all gang up and make fun of people, even though you say you didn't. It was all so transparent. You want to bitch thats fine, but how could we run a site, an honest, caring supportive site with the fear luming overhead that certain members would take what we had said and laugh at us like we are unworthy and they are so much more superior to us, behind our backs. You can hide behind rules but honestly i can't believe that you really feel that you have been hard done by. I am so angry that you can turn this around and blame admin. Admin do have a life, but yesterday my life was put on hold, because i had to deal with this shit.
Now with the free speech. If you have a problem with somebody, then ignore them. Isn't that what we tell our kids? Or do we tell our children, you know if you don't like somebody, then go up to them, tell them that you hate their guts and can see no good in them...and maybe even kick them while they are down. I certainly would be ashamed if i raised my boys to be bullies who thought that their opinion of people was automatically the right one. Just because you don't like somebody does not mean that everyone hates them. Soemtimes i can't stand alot of yams...but i don't tell them in yams..maybe its me having the bad day...maybe its them. So yes i might come over to my journal and have a bit of a bitch..but usually i won't use names..but this is my journal..and if you are reading this then that is with my permission. Yams is a public forum..where grown ups , mothers come to spend time with other mothers in similar situations, alot of people read the comments there..so u msut be careful.
I really don't understand why everyone is oh i hate admin..like we are evil trying to ruin everyones fun. We are just normal people..there is no admin school that you can go to, we learn as we go along.
Anyway i'm over everything. We lost alot of members yesterday. I was emotionally drained last night..and thats a load of bullshit.
I really struggle with the responsibility sometimes, i guess cause i want to be fair. With over 300 members and at least 4 new members a week, it is simply impossible to be fair.
I've read alot of replies to the journals over the past day, complaining that admin hasn't replied to this..or admin always pulls the posts. We take away your freedom of speach. What a load of bullshit. If you don't know why you got banned..then the reason is: not because you were bitching, not because of who the bitching was about. It was because you made a mockery of yams and its true innocent members. You didn't like being there, you would all gang up and make fun of people, even though you say you didn't. It was all so transparent. You want to bitch thats fine, but how could we run a site, an honest, caring supportive site with the fear luming overhead that certain members would take what we had said and laugh at us like we are unworthy and they are so much more superior to us, behind our backs. You can hide behind rules but honestly i can't believe that you really feel that you have been hard done by. I am so angry that you can turn this around and blame admin. Admin do have a life, but yesterday my life was put on hold, because i had to deal with this shit.
Now with the free speech. If you have a problem with somebody, then ignore them. Isn't that what we tell our kids? Or do we tell our children, you know if you don't like somebody, then go up to them, tell them that you hate their guts and can see no good in them...and maybe even kick them while they are down. I certainly would be ashamed if i raised my boys to be bullies who thought that their opinion of people was automatically the right one. Just because you don't like somebody does not mean that everyone hates them. Soemtimes i can't stand alot of yams...but i don't tell them in yams..maybe its me having the bad day...maybe its them. So yes i might come over to my journal and have a bit of a bitch..but usually i won't use names..but this is my journal..and if you are reading this then that is with my permission. Yams is a public forum..where grown ups , mothers come to spend time with other mothers in similar situations, alot of people read the comments there..so u msut be careful.
I really don't understand why everyone is oh i hate admin..like we are evil trying to ruin everyones fun. We are just normal people..there is no admin school that you can go to, we learn as we go along.
Anyway i'm over everything. We lost alot of members yesterday. I was emotionally drained last night..and thats a load of bullshit.