Comments | mannabana: To Do Or Not To Do

mannabana

To Do Or Not To Do

Jul 27, 2004 13:16

Ok ima try to make this short and sweet.... Good lord....way back when I was in high school 9th grade to be exact... I had a crush on the most gorgeous guy.. he was in the 12th grade at the time ....but throughout the year he had a girlfriend so I knew I had no chance.... Well here it is 9 years later and I meet up with him again. He is now married ( Read more... )

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anonymous July 28 2004, 10:24:56 UTC

I think you should go for it!!! Just dont wait too long. If it was meant to be. It will happen
Luv ya girl

THIS TOPIC anonymous July 28 2004, 10:33:52 UTC

I THINK YOU SHOULD FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND TRY TO MAKE THE BEST OF WHAT YOU MAY HAVE.

Re: THIS TOPIC mannabana June 4 2007, 06:20:48 UTC

Funny christopher because you screwed me over so many times.... im def. done with you.... 4 times was enough for me....

anonymous July 28 2004, 10:40:35 UTC

Hey Manna your story has really got to me I think it is wonderful that you have keep that man in your heart for so long . he would be crazy not to be with you . you sound like a really nice and sweet person I hope that you get this guy and he really wants to be with you . everyone has that special someone and its even harder when you have to wait for the other person to realize that it is you .keep your head up and don't let him go.
sincerely Friend

the first instinct anonymous July 28 2004, 11:22:20 UTC

well i have alot of married friends and we go out and chill and go to parties/bars and they do not have there wifes around. when its liek that they hit on almost every girl they thinkis attractive and some they jsut flirt with and they even take there wedding rings of some of them, cuz they know whenthey go home what is in store 4 them there wife's.now most the time thats true, but i ve seenthem go pick up girls and take them to there place adn then the next day there all liek why did i do that and this that and the other but norlmally therees once 4 everything. if someone is true to someone then theyould faulter theremarrage by ingagement with others. Another words there vows on take ur not even suppose to seperate but its 21 century so things r different i see ive even been with a married womanbut i didnt know that til later on down the road adn stillithink would ve done something a little differently if i knew that before hand.but u talked about waiting 2 months what might happen if the things r the same then as they r now ( ... )

froggerbiotch July 28 2004, 14:07:01 UTC

manda ... i have known you for a very long time ... well not that long but yeah .. and you are always concervative when it comes to guys .. and well hun in the past you have not had the greatest luck .. not on your part .. but well since i have known you guys have screwed you over and made your life miserable ... if this guy is truely the one that is meant to be .. well he will do what he needs to do to make you the sould woman in his life .. if not .. well hey you tryed .. and i know you are holding back many feelings that you want to let exscape to him and it hurts and its shitty to see him leave and go back to his wife ... but well that was his high school sweetheart .. some people make mistakes and they should not be held as a bad person for those .. so if he feels right ... do what you need to do to personally survive and wait it out as long as you are willing to do .. BUT here is the but ... his wife needs to know from his mouth that there are things that he is feeling for you ... you dont need to be named in a divorce hearing ( ... )