Only you can make me feel this way
basic info
* what is your name?: Megan
* what is the current date?: My sisters birthday!
* what is your sex?: female
* what is your birthday?: Dec 24....xmas eve
* what is your current relationship status?: single
* what is your sexual orientation? (if you don't mind me asking): straight
* what character traits do you look for in a potential interest?: funny, sarcastic, and has just the right amount of not caring about me to keep me hooked...
* what sort of people do you like, as far as what they're interested in in life?: Doesnt matter what they like in life...just as long as they have some ambition
* what physical traits do you look for in a potential interest?: facial hair...and long hair....there are some parts of the body I DONT like hair in...like arm pits, but other than that hair is good...and I like strong arms
* what kind of fashion-sense attracts you?: whatever
* what kind of hair style do you find attractive on a potential mate?: bangs in the eyes, medium length hair, and it should NOT look greasy at all
* what is the usual age range you look at?: my age or 1 to 2 years older
* what traits turn you off?: smoking, laziness, clingy, and the ability to treat me like a housewife
* do you prefer to date various people, or do you pretty much fall into monogamous relationships quickly? Monogamy...when I date a guy, hes the only one I think of that way
* are you afraid to ask people out on dates?: yes
single life
* if you're single right now, do you wish you were in a relationship?: it depends on the person i'd be with. but mostly, yes.
* what are the positive points about being single?:you can mess around with whoever you want. you have a lot of time for friends & school & other stuff.
* what are the negative points about being single?: Im...single.
* when single, do you often find youself longing for companionship?: yep
* how well do you handle rejection?: uh. i get pissed &/or depressed.
* do you miss your last sweetie?: sometimes
* do you think it's better to look for love, or let it find you?: let it find you....if you look for love you either look obsessive or end up feeling like a dumbass for wanting it so bad
when you're in a relationship
* if you're currently in a relationship right now, how long have you been in it?:
* what's the longest relationship you've been in?: 6 months I think
* the shortest?: 2 months
* what are the positive points about being in a relationship?: You've got something to do on most nights, and your happiness and self esteem sky rockets...plus, I always lose weight. Oh...and I listen to happy love music...which is pretty much all songs
* what are the negative points about being in a relationship?: jealousy. juggling friends and your guy.
* have you ever gone out with someone you didn't know very well?: Ive always been good friends with the guy before I went out with them
* have you ever gone out with someone you had a crush on?: Stupid question of the day
* have you ever gone out with someone who had a crush on you?: see above
* what is an example of an ideal, perfect day with your sweetie?: something where we arent just sitting and watching a movie...we are going out, having fun, and enjoying being with the other person
* how important is it to you to know the exact status of your relationships (ie: "dating", "going steady", etc)?: its something I always question...like when I first started dating both of my exes, we were technically "friends with benefits" but then, we decided to just go out....
* do you think couples should spend a very large amount of time together, or space things out a tad?: i like to spend time together.
* have you ever found yourself worried about commitment?: when a guy asked me to marry him at age 20, yes I did....
* when involved, do you try to think about the here-and-now, or do you often think about the future?: here and now....I dont think about the future cause if I like the guy, I dont want to get my hopes up or scare him off
* how do you prefer to handle disagreements?: i hold things in & run away from problems & just generally give in usually.
* when in a fight, it is better to euphamize things to soften the hurt, or should one be blunt?: Be blunt. Get it out in the open. It will get sorted out and you wont hold a grudge
* how do you feel when your mate is mad at you and won't tell you why?: Like Im not going out with him....sad
feelings
* do you have a crush right now?: Yes. Multiple actually.
* do they know?: nope
* what's the longest period of time you've ever had a crush?: 3 years...
* have you ever confessed your feelings to a crush?: Yep. He basically said "Wow...ummmm...ok....ummmm.....thats so weird...." We eventually went out though
* has someone who had a crush on you ever confessed to you?: Yeah, but Ive never had a guy say it straight out. But, they've managed to convey the message to me.
* do you tell a lot of people when you have a crush?: Actually, I dont. My sister always made me feel really weird if I told her I had a crush, so I RARELY convey my feelings for someone.
* how do you feel about long-distance relationships?: they dont work.
* if so, does a phone call with them make you feel better of worse?: Better. Unless the guy is a jerk and tells you all the girls who like him, and are just waiting for him to pick one to date. AND THEN tell you it was YOUR fault you broke up because you started hanging out with a guy as a friend, and he figured that was the end of the relationship cause you made a guy friend and got himself a girlfriend. Cory sucked.
* have you ever pined for someone when you're not around them?: yeah of course
* would you get involved with someone if they had a child already?: at my age? no.
* what would you do if you got pregnant / made her pregnant while in a relationship?: Wouldnt have an abortion...I would probably either stay with the guy or be a single mom.
* would you get involved with someone if they were previously married?: No
* how big of an issue is your mate's morals, to your compatibility?: it a pretty big issue...Ive broken up with a guy because of a difference in this area
* how big of an issue is political beliefs, to your compatibility?: well. if they're dead against something that i'm extremely for. theres gonna be problems.
* how big of an issue is religion to your compatibility?: unless they shove it down my throat and they understand that we differ, I dont care.
* how big of an issue to you is your mate's ethnicity?: also not an issue.
* in a potential mate, how important is conversation to you?: alot
* in a potential mate, how important is intelligence to you?: you don't have to be a genious. but you gotta have a brain.
* in a potential mate, how important is sense of humor to you?: very
* in a potential mate, how important is understanding to you?: extremely
* in a potential mate, how important is forgiveness to you?: there shouldn't be much to forgive, but it should be there.
* how tangible do your shared feelings have to be? (aka: are words even necessary?): i like to hear it.
* what makes your heart flutter, and brings a bit cheesy smile to your face?: The guy showing his love for me in a way thats not normal....like pointing to a "I heart you" I wrote on his arm that day when he knows I am not having a good night
makin' out
* what was your first kiss like?: Sloppy and wet....but I remember going to the bathroom right afterward and just being the happiest and most excited I have ever been. I waited along time for it, and didnt waste it on someone not special to me.
* what parts of a person's body do you find most attractive?: face, hair, arms
* what's the first thing you look at when you look at someone you're attracted to?: hair
* how important is the looks of a mate's face to you?: Its better if I like the look of the face...but that doesnt make me vain, cause I like all different types of faces....its just gotta have that something special to it...like a good smile.
* how important is the looks of a mate's body to you?: same as above
* when you kiss someone for the first time, is it usually you who initiates it, or the other?: they do...I went out with a guy and fooled around and everything....and didnt kiss for like a month
* when you are about to kiss someone for the first time, do you generally feel calm, or are you nervous?: nervous...
* can you generally tell when the time is right for a first kiss to happen with your object of interest?: yeah
* what are you're favorite places to be touched?: lower part of my head, neck, stomach, hips, shoulders
* what are your favorite places to touch?: chest, arms
* what are you're favorite places to be kissed?: ears, neck, lips
* what are your favorite places to kiss?: neck, lips
* do you prefer long sensual kisses or shorter pecks?: shorter pecks actually
* have you ever kissed someone you longed for?: yeah
* how did that make you feel?: good that I got up the courage to ask him for a kiss
* have you ever casually made out with someone who you weren't seriously involved with?: had a chance to, but I declined...which turned out to be the best thing I could have done
* were you single at the time?: yeah
* what are your ticklish areas?: sides
* what are your turn-offs?: smoking, chewing tobacco, burping, spitting, farting
* what do you most like about making out?: feeling like there is nothing else my guy or me would rather be doing at that very moment
sex (there are a lot of action-specific questions I could ask, but I'll save those for the purity tests) (oh, and remember, all this is optional)
* are you a virgin?: nope
*if not, would you consider your first time to have been a good one?: As good as it could have been. It hurt like hell, but anybody else wouldnt have been as gentle with me.
* how old were you when you lost your virginity?: 19
* have you ever had sex with someone you loved?: Yes
* have you ever turned down an offer for sex?: Yes...I did alot when I was dating both corys. I just wasnt ready.
* if you are a virgin, how do you feel about sex?:
* if you are a virgin, (rock on!), what are your reasons to stay that way?:
* how much do you think sex changes a relationship?: Its the next step, and you have to be mature enough to go to the next step
* has anyone ever walked in on you during love-making?: Nope...my sister and her friend walked in when I was having a heavy make out session, but thats it
* on a scale from 1 to 10 (10 being highest) how would you rate your sexual attractiveness?: 7...guys are easy to attract
* on a scale from 1 to 10 (10 being highest) how would you rate your - *ahem* - kink factor?: 4
* how do you feel about casual sex?: as long as its safe.
* at what level of importance does sex factor into your relationships?:It would mean that we want the other to feel good and we are secure with each other and in love
* how important is it to talk frankly about sex?: very...its hard though
* would you stay with a lover if the love stopped, but the sex was still enjoyable?: no. we might be friends with benefits though
* would you stay with a lover if the sex stopped / got boring, but there was still love?: probably. i'd want to fix it though.
love
* do you believe in love?: yes.
* do you believe in love at first sight?: lust at first sight....
* what would it take for you to love someone?: Feeling its just natural to be with them
* has someone ever told you they loved you?: .yeah.
* have you ever told someone you loved them and meant it?: yeah.
* have you ever told someone you loved them and not meant it?: Nope
* do you believe it's necessary to express your love in words, of is just the atmosphere and feelings enough?: words are necessary.
* are you a monogamous person, or do you believe in open-ended realtionships?: monogamous
* do you believe love can end, or do you think it never goes away, and just changes, or what?: I think love can end...Ive had it happen to me, and it sucks to realize you arent in love with someone anymore.
marriage
* have you ever been married?: nope
* how do you feel about marriage?: I dont really think its necessary to be honest.
* if you're currenlty not married, do you foresee yourself ever tying the knot?: Yes, when I want kids.
* do you plan on having children some day?: Definetly
* what are your feelings on polyamoury (an "open" marriage, aka: swinging)?: Wont work for me. Too many jealousy issues.
* Do you feel that Bill Clinton's extramarital affairs were really the business of everyone else in the world?: Yes.
breakups
* have you ever had your heart broken?: ..yeah.
* have you ever been dumped?: not really
* have you ever dumped someone?:yeah...it sucked to
* have you ever mutually broke up with someone?: yeah...well, we both thought the other thought we broke up, so we found other people to be with...and never really "officially" broke up
* has a romantic companion ever made you cry?: yeah, by leaving on a plane and never coming back
* did you cry in thier presence?: Yes, and they helped me by hugging me and reassuring me everything was going to be ok.
* did you cry with them?: No....
* have you ever made a romantic companion cry?: Yes....when we were going through some rough times...I was in college, and he was in a different state
* have you ever had an emotional pain so bad it made you sick or physically hurt?: yes
* have you ever been unfaithful? if so, how did it make you feel?: No
* if so, did they find out?:
* have you ever been cheated on? if so, how did it make you feel?: Nope
* have you ever had to end a relationship due to life changes not related to romance (ie: moving, strict parents, etc)?: A guy moved to germany after hanging out with me EVERY DAY and literally living at my house for 2 months....
* have you ever learned an important lesson as a result of a break up?: Yes...that religion is a bigger deal than I thought.
the aftermath
* have you ever gotten back together with someone after breaking up?: yeah, but only for like a week
* did it work?: no
* do you believe there's hope for people after they get back together, or do you think the same problems that caused the initial break-up will resurface?: i think it depends on the relationship.
* have you ever broke up and remained friends afterward?: Both times...
* have you ever broke up and became bitter enemies?: no.
* if so, did you ever made amends?:
* have you ever broke up and lost touch?: I kind of did that with my last boyfriend
* have you ever got back in touch with an old flame after a time of more than 3 months of no communication?: Yeah...I told him I hated him, and didnt talk to him for 3 or 4 months...
* were you afraid to do so?: no. I was more pissed that he imed me than afraid to talk to him
* do you ever check up on old flames (weather by asking mutual friends, for example), without actually contacting them?: No, I try not to dwell cause it makes me feel pathetic
* if you've ever lost touch or went sour with someone who you loved, how did it make you feel?: Relieved actually...but we didnt really "lose" touch...I forced it
* have you ever longed to get back together with someone?: yes
* although it surely depends of specific relationships, how long does it take before your out looking for companionship again?: it depends on the relationship & the person i was in the relationship with & how & why we broke up & who else i might want to be with.