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mara_jade82

Friend from the past..........

Dec 29, 2005 20:40

So..........the last part of December has been really strange. I was reunited with a old flame. I am not sure how I feel about I feel about it yet. I care for him but I have only been apart from Ed for four monthsa and to start a new relationship this soon might be suicide. I just don't know what to do. My old flame and I did not exactly part on ( Read more... )

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_cthulhu December 30 2005, 20:34:24 UTC

Well, congrats on getting a bit of a friendship back. Its normal to worry about being on the rebound. When you're ready, you usually feel it.
The trick is making sure YOU are within YOUR comfort level, and not trying to put yourself second to fit expectations or standards. Its okay to put others first once in a while, but when you are vulnerable isn't the best time.

mara_jade82 December 30 2005, 22:35:08 UTC

Thank you for the words of encouragement. I really am just so lost as to what to do. I care about two guys and that is not a good thing. One is a best friend and one is an old friend, and both are old flames. Life is so confusing.....